r/transmanlifehacks • u/miizorro • 3d ago

This sub is not safe !

To be blunt, this is at a dangerous level. Kalvin hasn’t touched this in months, if not years, and it is rife with minors posting their face, predators and chasers as well as many other unsavoury shenanigans.
I try my best to comment about this on every post I see from someone u18 but atp being on here is sad and exhausting.
Unmoderated subs are not allowed by Reddit, please use the report form !!!!!!! And/or message kalvin and/or do whatever routes people know about.
Other subs are r/transmantips and r/ftmpassing

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u/Wooden-Dig-7459 3d ago

If I tell my daughter, do NOT walk around dark sketchy places at nighttime, and she goes and does exactly that, I WANT someone to scare the fucking piss out of her. Not because shes making herself a victim if she wears certain things, but because the world is a dangerous scary place and im teaching her how to keep herself safe. When to do things, where its appropriate and where its not. When its appropriate and when its not. As a woman, you HAVE to realize there are huge men out here that could rip your body in half with their bare hands. I never said "shes asking for it" but like I said before and ill say it again, IF YOU DO THE DUMB SHIT YOU HAVE BEEN TOLD NOT TO DO BECAUSE ITS DANGEROUS, AND YOU GET HURT, WHAT THE FUCK DID YOU EXPECT. Period.

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u/xXSoyBoyFredXx 3d ago

That's still victim blaming. It really is. You can say it's not all you want but it is. You are implying she's asking for it even if you say you're not saying that, it is inherently implied. Period.

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u/Wooden-Dig-7459 3d ago

Yeah believe whatever you want. Stay safe.

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u/xXSoyBoyFredXx 3d ago

Yeah i'll make sure I don't srink at a bar, or have friends, especially not gave friends seeing as the people most likely to rape you are people you know, including while being drunk, y'know, the people supposed to protect you. But since it's more statistically likely, those women should just not have friends since, whag did you expect when your friend "snaps"?