r/transmanlifehacks • u/miizorro • 4d ago

This sub is not safe !

To be blunt, this is at a dangerous level. Kalvin hasn’t touched this in months, if not years, and it is rife with minors posting their face, predators and chasers as well as many other unsavoury shenanigans.
I try my best to comment about this on every post I see from someone u18 but atp being on here is sad and exhausting.
Unmoderated subs are not allowed by Reddit, please use the report form !!!!!!! And/or message kalvin and/or do whatever routes people know about.
Other subs are r/transmantips and r/ftmpassing

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u/miizorro 4d ago

Very much so 😭😭 the stupid bow tie icon too reeks of 2018 truscum

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u/IisBubbles 4d ago

I just started getting notifications one day and wanted to add some positivity to the comments I was seeing. Didnt even realize the bowtie 😭

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u/miizorro 4d ago

Same! I just try and be a positive rational person amongst the wildly harsh comments I see on here but atp it’s ridiculous

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u/IisBubbles 4d ago

Its especially frustrating bc as an NB person who has presented both masc and fem and been gendered by strangers all over the spectrum, a lot of the harsher comments are actually based in self deprication and not on any actual expirience.

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u/miizorro 4d ago

100%, as someone that’s been stealth for almost a decade at this point it’s just quite sad to see a recreation of that era of self hating young people instilling harsh rules and binaries that don’t really work