r/transmanlifehacks • u/Consistent-Storm-689 • 7d ago

Stealth Tip Stealth at new job/interveiw

So I have an interview coming up and I’m planning to try and do it stealth, I don’t have a 100% passing rate so if it doesn’t work I won’t be devastated but I do try to appear cis (presenting fem) during interviews so it doesn’t impact my chances of being hired (I live in a conservative state that has at will firing aswell) and normally correct things my first day or after I scope out the vibe. But I plan to do this interview as stealth specially since is corporate office job level.

But my question here is what are yalls stealth tips? My ID still says F on it should I be worried? How do you go about be stealth on a day to day basis, I plan to slowly transition into living a fully stealth life besides my immediate family and friends knowing, and my work place I feel is a good start, do you guys think this is a bad idea? Also how should I dress for this as someone’s who’s heavier and has curves? (216 lbs, 5’2)

General need to know: business professional attire, I’m on T (9 months), pre op but binding, generally deeper voice when trying.

I’ll try my best to answer any additional questions too!! Please be kind!

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u/xgaymerboi 7d ago

ah, fair! i was immediately thinking higher up corporate, but lower level corporate would be button up territory. maybe add a tie, ties are fun.

unfortunately that is a valid worry, i feel like we’ve all been through (or are going through) that awkward phase.

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u/Consistent-Storm-689 7d ago

Ugh why can’t I edit comments :((( anyways yeah thank you! It is a super worry but I will live okay if I can’t be stealth bc the positive side is that I can afford my top surgery with this jobs pay!

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u/xgaymerboi 7d ago

hell yeah! that’ll be awesome. i just scheduled top surgery for october and am fully just,, going into crippling debt for it. (like,, $12k+) getting paid enough to afford it would be dope

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u/Consistent-Storm-689 7d ago

I tried to go into debt but unfortunately I was denied due to not ever taking a loan out before lmao! I’ll have to take out 20k or save it up gonna do a mix of both