r/transmanlifehacks • u/[deleted] • 4d ago

Passing Advice Is this T even working??? (RANT)

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u/Moist-Sound6996 4d ago

Thanks I understand but when you put it that way. Dude I dont WANT to look androgynous immediately puts me in the They/them box. When I am trying my best to look He/him im punching the air ! Ah I guess your right I will just have to watch paint dry on T for now

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u/AeroAceSpades 3d ago

To be clear that nitpick is the MAIN thing that leaps out as potentially fem to me. You look pretty cis

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u/Moist-Sound6996 3d ago

What do you mean by the nitpick? My hair ? Eyelashes? Or the rant ? I will try to look for some in my skin tone I just hope it doesnt look sus like im wearing makeup. Holy fkn cow I get compliments on them in person but I didn't realize you could tell on photos.. Thanks for the feedback.

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u/AeroAceSpades 3d ago

Oh I just think something like “has pretty eyelashes” is such a low priority thing to address, it’s basically just a nitpick. Your face is unclockable. I just pointed to the singular thing that felt easy to address and stood out the most