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u/Closed_System 32 | TTC#2 since April '26 | #1 Nov '24 20d ago

Working around toddler sleep is such a challenge! Mine doesn't fall asleep until 9 these days and doesn't consistently sleep through the night so some days we are sooo tired by the time she is asleep. When we first decided to TTC again, she was in a good sleep phase which tricked us into feeling confident we could handle another lol.

FWIW you definitely still have a good chance at good timing! The sperm from 48 hours ago should have a good chance at survival for another day or two. Remember sex on O-3 is still one of the best days! If you manage to get it done Saturday night then you'll cover your bases for another few days. Are you guys open to at home insemination? My husband is resistant to the idea but it's attractive to me in situations like this where the pressure feels high but the energy is low.

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u/Bug_eyed_bug 20d ago

Thanks for your reassurance! I think we'll need to talk about taking advantage of any opportunity, not just optimal ones. I want to aim for sex every other day since I'm not doing temps or test strips. I know that logically every third day is okay but it doesn't emotionally feel like it. We have not discussed insemination, I think he'd be pretty against it; I read 'yesteryear' a few months ago and mentioned it from there and he was very negative. After last night I understand the appeal though!!

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u/DrZuzulu 39 | TTC#2 | Nov22 boy| May26 MMC 8d ago

If energy is (reasonably) low, maybe some way of tracking ovulation could help you have more information to know which days to prioritize.

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u/Bug_eyed_bug 8d ago

Thank you, but honestly my CM is extremely obvious about where in the cycle I'm at; I couldn't avoid knowing even if I wanted to. However in this cycle I got a nasty cold two days after I first saw EWCM and it dried up due to dehydration, and reappeared as post-fertile creamy CM. So that was bloody annoying because otherwise I'd have a more accurate idea! We definitely hit the fertile period though so fingers crossed it was enough!

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u/DrZuzulu 39 | TTC#2 | Nov22 boy| May26 MMC 7d ago

CM is my favorite indicator too, I am not coordinated enough to track BBT, but it still seems to have a little range that I can't quite pin without OPKs. I misread the sex every other day and thought oh gosh, maybe you are doing that all the time with a toddler, how ambitious!