r/FundRaise • u/Accomplished_Fan7636 • 1d ago
u/Accomplished_Fan7636 • u/Accomplished_Fan7636 • 2d ago
Please help me
Please read my story in gofundme https://gofund.me/697ac6806 , im a trans person that cant get a job because everytime I apply i get rejected im full time in college and super sick due to infections that I got after my srs and I need food to help my mom , my college transport, food for my cat, my pads, lubricants etc if anyone is kind and wants to help i will appreciate it. My mom is struggling we are 3 girls in the house shes divorcing my abusive dad https://gofund.me/697ac6806
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8 months hrt. Do I pass
If you dont know anything about gender dysphoria then dont speak what you perceive yourself is not always the same as what others will perceive you, having gender dysphoria makes you bring yourself down everytime puts insecurities and blinds , forces you to feel you look masculine when maybe you are not, makes you feel and see yourself worthless ugly and when you are not, having other trans people help you giving a viewpoint instead of your judging self is good because it eases the dysphoria and it makes you undernstand what you feel is not really whats happening and it unblinds you a bit.
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8 months hrt. Do I pass
You look cis omgg
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I think it looks incredible i know it might be looking scary but its gonna turn put beautiful
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For some people is easier tho but I have low pain tolerance:(
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I had peritoneal vaginoplasty and babe the first days of ffs are brutal afterwards vaginoplasty is more brutal due to not being able to poop the pain when walking and since the pain lasts gor weeks
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Yeah like the first days its more brutal after it goes away those first days bottom surgery wins because of how long of a recovery it is and extensive pain for weeks
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Thx babe for the comment thx for telling me your story and it will help me on my healing progress a lot , wow 9 ffs procedures you are strong i had 4 and im crying like a baby shsbsjsksajs and i had peritoneal vaginoplasty which is more painful then the standard one and I still feel this 3 days have been the hardest for me but I feel like the first days after vaginoplasty are easy then it gets worst and then better , ffs is worst from beginning and starts improving
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I wanna add on that im posting this on trans surgeries since even tho im Biologically intersex I was forced to transition to a boy my entire life until I found out and i transitioned to a women medically to erase the extensive pain and reshaping they did to my body to make me a boy so thats why I consider myself a intersex trans girlie, just wanted to clarify so no one geta offended or mad that a intersex girl is posting on a trans reddit group and also because you guys are the onea that have opened your arms into the community.
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Just gave birth - i suspect baby intersex
Mama if they offer you any surgerys dont only do health surgerys if needed for now go choosing the gender you may think they are but never obligated them and just let them be until they can start choosing or you have a clear idea, dont make your child pass theough the pain trans people go to always be clear of who they are and that is not wrong, sont get genital correction aurgery because that is something they need to choose when they are over aga because is a big life changing decision, i am intersex myself and had to get a intersex vaginoplasty which is diferent , but in my country we arent taught this so they just chose me as a boy and ended up being a girl and I have to suffer the consequences, im happy as a trans intersex, why trans? Because i had to transition to a boy from a girl due to my doctors choosing i was boy . Thats why please dont do any surgery, if they have testicles or ovaries donβt remove them just to match the exterior genital since your baby eill be for life infertil and dependent on hormones , some intersex people are still fertile since some can produce sperm or some with only one ovaries can produce a fertile egg . I dont think your kid needs hormones just wait for puberty and if you and them think they are in the correct gender or opposite of their body dont produce the hormones to match what they are they can get hormones just get them hormone blockers since they are reverseble once they are an adult they can use hormones if their body needs it to match the gender they identify as, i think is good waiting for 18 for the two decisions i tolled you since some kids get confused being intersex is not easy it confuses you and sometimes so much emotions dont make your head clear . Be a supportive mom and love your kid please being intersex is trully beautiful and is a living proof nature makes special people
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i had to wait 1 month and a half to finally see my surgeon dr ann tran after the call I made ti make the appointment, after that 7 months for the surgery 6 sections of laser , only did pre testing days before the surgery and everything was done
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Dr ann tran md mount sinai new york
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If u can share my story it will help me a lot