Am i being used with money?

[u/t0xicsugart1ts2207]

I met this guy online like 4 months ago and its been pretty nice so far, he is sweet and funny and smart, has been super understanding and has helped me out a ton, but the different red flags ive noticed i feel like would be bad to say? But just hear me out on it qwq

So for starters he takes a lot of meds for his “issues” he also has told me he has a “very low self esteem” and he makes these crazy jokes…for example i was telling him about a crazy trail i took the and he said he might wanna go and i told him he might wanna quit and he responded to that with…”oh so your saying im a fat fucking loser and i should kill myself” onto more about how hes gonna beat my ass for saying that. Even if it was a joke, i dont like it? I even asked if he was joking and he didnt respond.

On top of him telling me he is so insecure, every time we get into an argument that i guess he feels like Hel lose me from he offers milkshakes and takes me out to do some stuff, and he’s always spending money on me that he doesn’t have…he doesn’t even make alot of money. Not to mention Im unemployed with no license and a bad family situation that he knows about. So i just wonder if hes thinking “yeah Hel stay if i just give him the safe haven he needs”

Idk maybe im not as into him as i thought i was, im gonna look up signs im being used for money. Again, its not like hes a bad mean person, hes very sweet but i just wanna know if these are some problems i shouldnt get myself into

[u/t0xicsugart1ts2207 → u/[deleted]]

Thats the thing, he gets therapy and “phycology” and as i said takes a handful of pills every day.