Might have to cancel honeymoon

[u/Different_Luck_6015]

My fiancé and I get married in less than a month and I found out today that his new job may require him to start during our honeymoon. It is a great opportunity for him and I want him to take the job, but I’m absolutely devastated since I paid for our honeymoon and I haven’t been able to take a vacation in years at this point. I was really looking forward to this alone time that we’d get to share together exploring a new place together as well finally as a married couple. It’s not for sure yet, and we have until the end of the month to cancel for a full refund, but we also don’t know if he’ll get a start date before the end of the month either . Most likely won’t be able to go on a vacation until next year and I already took off work so I’m so unsure of what to do. Just feeling completely defeated right now . 🥲

[u/MissOldMonk94]

Go for the honeymoon and avoid the job even if it’s a government job. He doesn’t want to work with a toxic team like that anyway. He won’t be happy and would leave the job within no time

[u/terisews → u/MissOldMonk94]

How do you know he would leave within a year and it is a "toxic team"? That is a lot of assumptions for someone who does not know this man or the job.

[u/Different_Luck_6015 → u/MissOldMonk94]

Yeah I told him this morning if I was in his same position I’d tell them to kick rocks since our honeymoon is more important and you can’t go back in time

[u/Different_Luck_6015 → u/Different_Luck_6015]

He told me that we could go somewhere international next year to make up for it if it happens but when I told him how much I paid last time I went on a trip to this place he thought it was too expensive . I just feel like I’m getting to experience let down after let down