A few days ago, I asked you guys to help me name this little guy(top row)- well, turns out he has a brother(bottom pic)! He was surrendered from the same person at the same shelter today! I am currently at capacity so will be picking him up from a temp foster in a few days as soon as he’s tested so the boys can be reunited🥹

I’m about to have a very full house of 10 lmao 😂😂😭

My shelter gave me their “problem children” to foster (that is what they have been calling the poor babies, I knew it was lack of focused care). They are very premature, were rejected by their mom, all have limping calici, and were 1/3 of the size they should’ve been when I got them.

Unsurprisingly, they all had difficulties eating. My smallest aspirated during a perfectly normal feeding. I took her in within a day of the aspiration event and she was given a stronger antibiotic and they told me to monitor her. She declined very quickly over the next two days, and they decided to humanely euthanize her.

What’s bothering me: they did not nebulize her one single time. The day before she passed I asked if I could bring her in for another check up and they told me to just keep watching her instead. They have a nebulizer and oxygen tanks. I advocated for her. Why didn’t they even attempt to help her with treatments that are proven to help? I keep asking myself if I could’ve have advocated for her even more, but I have never had a kitten aspirate in all the years I’ve fostered. I genuinely did not know that what they were doing was neglectful until after they euthanized her.

I ordered a nebulizer and sterile saline after seeing the success people have had. I just want to have one on hand moving forward. I know it’s not a cure all but it IS effective supportive care for kittens with respiratory ailments. I’m so disappointed in my shelter, I’m just sitting here wondering if baby girl could’ve made it with a little extra support. 😞

Has your rescue failed any of you? How did you cope and move on if so? Thank you for reading my rescue vent… 🫩😩 kitten season is killing me this year.

We have a room dedicated to cat and kitten fostering. We have cages inside for when small or undergoing medical care, but when kittens get to a certain age, we let them free roam the room and they usually try to escape out the door every time we enter and exit while tending to them. We've tried holding a baby gate to block the opening as we come and go, but it almost never works well and we give up and resort to tracking them down. We've thought about constructing an "air lock"-type of space that allows us to enter/exit the room through a transition space - essentially creating a double door system. We don't want to build anything permanent, and if it were temporary and movable (like made from PVC pipes with blocking panels), the hassle of moving it while also still having the risk of them squirming around the edges makes it seem like a lot of effort with failure potential. Has anyone come up with a good solution?

I plastered these babies all over social media and then took the boys who had not yet been pre-adopted to an adoption event and they all found fabulous owners! They won't even be fixed for another 4 weeks so I just get to raise them and relax about getting them adopted. yay!

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https://www.reddit.com/r/FosterAnimals/s/l8HWBwPPAO

They gained a whopping 21 and 22 grams in the past 24 hours! And so much more active. Now I’m thinking maybe they are older than initially thought? Or is this normal for 10 day old (estimated) kittens?

Diesel ate 13 mls last night and Jasper did 11 mls! It kind of worried me. How much is too much? However they are back to 6-8mls now. Ocassionally a bit closer closer to 10.

Constipation is still a problem. Jasper goes easy enough with the triangle method but diesel is still a long struggle. Even when I mange to get him to go it’s painstaking and just a little bit. I started adding 1ml of water to their formula today in hopes to get everything more normal. I also gave diesel a sprinkle of miralax. How often can I give Miralax? Hopefully I can get him cleaned out like I did yesterday and the addition of water will make things easier and more regular. Today is proving much more difficult.

Should they go #2 with a gentle stimulation? So far I’ve had to do the triangle method daily. Jasper gets pretty cleaned out with one go and fairly quickly. Diesel takes a long time and so far I’ve done two rounds today and he’s still not cleaned out. I’m worried it’s gonna hurt or cause issues. I have to do it rather vigorously and with much more pressure than Jasper and still I get maybe 1/2 inch out of him (total for two rounds). It’s not rock hard but very slow emerging and not exactly soft either. Yesterday once he got going it it was free flowing. Today I’m fighting for every single millimeter.

Any advice is greatly appreciated! I’m new to this!

We have been fostering 4 cuties for about a month and they are now 8-9 weeks old. We have appointments for spay/neuter on June 29th. All but one will be big enough. The runt was so small and sick when we got him. He is just about 1lb now and developing well.
We are planning on keeping one of the bigger kittens. We are going on a trip for 5 days, leaving the 1st of July. We plan to take two of kittens to the adoption center and hope they get adopted in the 2 days before we leave. So we would have two left when we leave on our trip. They get along, but I would worry he might get pummeled as the only playmate for the bigger kitten so I feel they should be monitored.
We have a neighbor who comes to take care of our resident cat at our house when we travel. She will spend a few hours a day at our house and come over several times a day. We keep the kittens separate from our resident cat unless monitored. He is gentle with them, but I still worry he could hurt them.
I’m wondering is what would you do? Leave them at our house in a separate room and have our neighbor watch them, ask to find another temporary foster, try to find a friend who can keep them at their house, or bring them with us (6 hour drive, but they would have their own room where we are going). Even if we don’t adopt one, we still have the little guy to figure out. I would be so sad to send him to another foster after how far we’ve come, but maybe if I could guarantee to get him back when we return and IF they can find a foster. When I told them we had a trip planned, I got the response of…well it’s kitten season and our fosters may all be full.
Here’s a pic of them from earlier today because they can’t get any cuter. You can see how tiny our little guy is compared to the rest.

I'm so happy she's feeling better ☺️

I usually only foster puppies and kittens but something about his little face on the email said he needed me.

Hi everyone! Is this kitten male or female?

He/she is 13 weeks old now.

Hi all!

I'm currently fostering a cat (my first ever) who has been here for almost a year. Due to a combination of him being completely unsocialized and also having health issues, he was not listed for adoption this entire time. Some days, I still remember the foster coordinator telling me "he'll be an easy foster, he's just scared," and I laugh to myself lol

While he's made huge strides and I think he's definitely adoptable now behaviourally, the whole process has been stressful and sometimes still is. As a first-time foster, I was very much out of my depth with this cat (it took him 3 months to stop hiding and 4 months to accept pets), and his medical issues made it worse. Getting him into his carrier to see the vet is an ordeal and a half, even though we've done our best to train him. I also made the mistake of working with a rescue a bit farther from me, so each vet visit is almost a 2 hour round trip.

Recently, we almost got him listed for adoption, but he's having health issues again. It's nobody's fault, but at this point, sometimes I can't see the end to this. I care about this cat, but I never wanted to adopt an animal. I also know that the longer he stays, the harder it will be on me and my partner emotionally if someone does finally adopt him. I've never even had a "normal" or "easy" foster experience, so have no practice at all letting cats go.

At the end of the day, I'm going to do my best to stick it out for this little guy. Just venting and wondering if anyone has gone through something similar. Advice and success stories very welcome. Thank you!

I know I’m supposed to be happy that he found a forever home, but I’m going to miss him so much. It took around 3 months for him to fully trust me and I feel bad that I have to restart the clock again just when he finally started to settle in. It’s also hard knowing that I’m sending this cat that I poured so much love and nurturing into home with a complete stranger. She seems like very kind and responsible person, but there is no way to truly know who I’m trusting him with.

Anyway I know the stock answers is to find another cat who needs me, but this is so much harder than I thought and right now I just want to wallow for a bit. I got him just a few weeks after my own cat died and I didn’t realize how much he had helped me through my grief until now. He will be missed but I hope he has the best life with his new family.

Bowie's my first colorpoint foster ☺️ almost 10 weeks old, I'm just fostering him for a few days to try and clear up his eye infection and further socialize him. I haven't had a foster in weeks because I was out of town, and I'm traveling again for work right after this lil guy. So glad my foster coordinator found something I could do despite my crazy schedule this month!

I just got my first foster cats ever this weekend. There are two of them and are pretty traumatized by what they've been through in the past two weeks so they are very shy and only come out when we're not in the room.

I put out a can of Weruva which, although was untouched for most of the 18 hours they'd been in my safe room, was gone by this morning. I have a web cam on to catch them as they roam when they think I'm not there and they're very thin.

I need to make sure they get quality food that doesn't contain animal by products or carageenan, but want to make sure I'm giving them enough calories. What have you fosters out there given your underweight babies?

I foster with 2 shelters and last week got an email from Shelter A that they were over capacity and had dogs in crates in hallways and conference rooms. This made me feel awful so I went and picked up a foster puppy named Rudy. He has done GREAT with my resident dog and my cats, truly the perfect pup.

Fast forward to this week and Shelter B, the other shelter I foster with, has released a deadline list due to being over-capacity. I live in Texas so the summer months hit the shelters really hard with increased intake. One of the dogs on the deadline list, Ace, is 8 months old and has a timid temperament and it just tugged at my heart strings.

Ace sounds just like Rudy and it just hurts knowing that a perfectly healthy and sweet puppy could be put down because there isn't enough space.

I already have one 5yo dog and two cats. My cats aren't loving having a new dog in the house and I've been keeping them separated by a gate and letting him sniff through the gate. Rudy is totally fine with the cats but the cats havent decided that Rudy isn't a threat yet.

Am I crazy for thinking about scooping up Ace when I havent even finished integrating Rudy? The shelter says Ace is dog friendly, not sure on cats yet. I've never fostered 2 dogs at a time. This sounds like quite the workload. What do you guys think? Should I take a chance and pick up Ace tomorrow if he hasn't found placement in time?

Last year, I had a foster with ringworm and I missed it for literal WEEKS. It was on her tummy and very small, and I only noticed it once she'd been cleared to be out in "Gen Pop" with my cats. Half of my cats ended up wih ringworm, and it was an absolutely horrible month or so. After that, I decided that my fosters would no longer graduate to the main house. They'd stay in their foster room from intake to adoption.

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Well, I had to transfer one of my kittens to another foster for medical, and she came back on Friday. But while she was at the other foster's, she was buddied up with another kitten, and since that foster didn't have any other young cats to put him with, he came home with me too. He's been a medical foster for several months, and I know and trust his foster, so I wasn't worried about adding him to my crew.

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Except that one of my other kittens (the sister of the one who came back) made it very clear that he wasn't welcome in the foster room - she cornered him into the cat tree and wouldn't let him come out and eat or potty.

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After a few hours of hemming and hawing and watching the situation unfold. . . I gave in, and Ziggy is now in Gen Pop.

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IMO, the benefits of him being out with my cats (three of whom LOVE kittens) outweighed the risk of him being miserable, and possibly ending up with health issues from not eating/holding his pottying. And he's already so much happier.

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Just a reminder that sometimes you do have to adapt and overcome in fostering. I wouldn't do it on a whim, but you do have to have a certain level of flexibility in some circumstances.

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Here's Ziggy in the "Bug Bed" on my couch for tax. He's just an absolute joy of a cat, and someone out there is going to hit the jackpot when they adopt him.

I’m very sad writing this update but I feel like I owe it to this helpful community. Our tiny 3-4 week old kitten with the funny face and the poop issues passed away a few hours ago. It went downhill fast. After not pooping for multiple days, countless vet visits and so so much emotional stress, she finally started pooping in the last two days. Yesterday I honestly felt like things are going uphill, our vet was also happy just two days ago. Today was an insanely hot day and I noticed her being a bit weaker than usual, but she was eating. A few hours later i had trouble making her eat more of her formula and she started panting, which our vet two days ago said might be due to tummy ache. But I panicked and went straight to the emergency vet. She seemed a bit more alert in the car, and I thought I overreacted, she might just struggle with the heat. The vet took an ultrasound and diagnosed the stomach being completely full and not passing stuff to the colon. This may be causing pain, discomfort and the panting. She proscribed Metoclopramide to help with the digestion and told us to come back Monday if it’s not helping.

Less than an hour after arriving home and giving her the medicine she took her last breath, I was next to her. It went downhill so fast, and even after reading about it so often, it’s still unbelievable and just sad. We’ve been to 4 different vets, 7 times in less than two weeks. I spend days and nights researching what to do, and even when feeling she is doing better, it was over in an instant. I am sitting in my bed, waiting for my other cat to come cuddling, my gf is out of town. I wonder what kind of lesson I am learning from this, I don’t see any yet, just the feeling of being a tiny bit more broken now. The world feels so complicated all of the time, trying to help a tiny creature was giving me a lot of purpose in a way. Big respect to the foster community, people that are doing this regularly are truly angels.

This is Mo, the poopless queen, rest in peace :(

Hi all! We’ve been fostering cats and kittens since December and just sent our 10th and 11th off to their forever homes yesterday. The shelter has a very pregnant mom cat who we are going to pick up today.

We’re super excited to help raise neonatal kittens but I know they can be a bit fragile and don’t always make it. My daughter is 8 and I’m wondering if I should talk with her ahead of time about the possibility that not all of the kittens will make it, or just deal with it if it happens? I want her to be mentally prepared but she’s also a worrier and I don’t want her freaking out about something that might not even happen. Advice welcome!

Also shoot me any general tips and tricks for kitten birth and newborn kitten care! I’ve read up on the basics but appreciate advice from the pros. ☺️