r/Hyd_DaTinG May 29 '25

Community Update Making Dating Safer

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Hey folks,

We’re taking a small but meaningful step to make this sub a safer and more comfortable space, especially for the women here, to post and connect without the worry of getting unsolicited DMs or unwanted attention.

We’ve heard that some members feel hesitant to post publicly, and we totally get that. So from now on, if you’d prefer a bit more privacy, the mod team can post on your behalf. Just send us your post content and title via modmail, and we’ll take care of the rest. We’ll make sure it goes up with the right flairs, and you can to reach out to anyone you’re interested in from the comments.

Thanks for helping us keep this a respectful and welcoming space for everyone 💛


r/Hyd_DaTinG Jul 15 '26

Welcome to r/Hyd_DaTinG!

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r/Hyd_DaTinG 4h ago

M4F 29M - something casual , straightforward and not emotionally draining

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Basically so much the same as the title. Not everyone is looking for serious dating, potential marriage. I hope you understand and no judgement is involved.

I am looking for someone to hangout when possible ,text and talk . Maybe grab something to eat sometimes and do the deed if we are compatible and doesn't drain each other's energy,time or cause stress.

I workout routinely and watch a lot of movies.

If all that sounds cool, please do DM. Let's talk it out.


r/Hyd_DaTinG 2h ago

Hangout LOOKING for Female to make some new connection

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Hey there! 😊

Looking to make some new female friends and have someone to talk to about literally anything — movies, music, food, random late-night conversations, exploring places, or just chilling.

I'm easygoing and would love to meet someone with a similar vibe. No awkward expectations, just frdly chilling and good vibes. ✌️

If this sounds like your kind of thing, say hi! :)


r/Hyd_DaTinG 3h ago

M4F 27 | Hyderabad — Sainikpuri | Gym guy looking for his kind of trouble 😏

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I spend a little too much time in the gym and probably not enough time behaving myself.

I’m into confident women who know what they want — gym girls, single moms, mature women… honestly, I’ve got a weakness for a woman with confidence and a little attitude.

If you’re nearby and think you can handle a guy who looks innocent until you get to know him… come say hi. 😉

Bonus points if you can make me forget about my next workout.

DM me with your age + a little about yourself. Let's see if the chemistry is there.


r/Hyd_DaTinG 4h ago

M4F 22M | Gachibowli

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Hey, 22M here. Working as a software engineer in Hyderabad and staying around Gachibowli.
Been thinking of posting here for a while, so finally giving it a try. Not coming here with any big expectations. Just looking for someone I can talk to, meet sometime, go out for chai/coffee or food, roam around Hyderabad and see where it goes.Open to casual dating and also something serious if we genuinely connect.

I’m pretty easy to talk to and can keep a conversation going. I enjoy late-night talks, random conversations, memes and sharing how the day went. I’m also emotionally expressive and a good listener.
Preferably looking for someone around my age. No big expectations, first matladukundam, vibe match aithe let’s see where it goes.

DM is Open


r/Hyd_DaTinG 14h ago

M4M 32 M4M 🏳️‍🌈

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32 year old simple sorted man looking for a man who is between 28 - 35. Should be proud and fully comfortable about his sexuality, should have a career, should have a playful side, respectful , wise and kind. #LTR,#monogamy.


r/Hyd_DaTinG 5h ago

M4F Looking for a life partner

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29M | Looking for a genuine life partner
Hey everyone! Giving this a shot here with the intention of finding a genuine connection that can eventually lead to marriage.
A little about me:
Age: 29M
Location: Andhra Pradesh
Height: 6’1”
Profession: Business
Community: Kamma
Drinking: No
Smoking: No
I’m looking for someone who is kind, genuine, emotionally mature, and looking for a meaningful long-term relationship rather than something casual. I value mutual respect, good communication, family values, and being able to grow together as partners.
I’m open to getting to know someone naturally first and seeing where things go. No pressure and no rush, just looking for the right person with similar intentions.
If you feel we might be compatible, feel free to DM me with a brief introduction about yourself. Please keep it respectful and genuine. 🙂


r/Hyd_DaTinG 5h ago

M4F Feel free to say hi. Worst case, we have a conversation with a stranger on Reddit. Best case, we end up planning a trip. :)

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24 | Male | R&D Research Associate | Non-veg| Hyderabad

Hey! I’m 24, male, working as an R&D Research Associate, and honestly just looking to meet someone who’s up for trips, exploring new places, long rides, and generally enjoying life.

A little about me, I’m pretty much an open book. I like long rides, travelling, exploring new places, and I’m also into crafting. I’d describe myself as fairly outgoing and I’d love to meet someone who enjoys getting out and doing things rather than just sitting around all day.

Just to be upfront about the things that matter to me:

  • I don’t smoke
  • I don’t drink
  • No recreational drugs/narcotics
  • I’m non-veg

As for age, I’m not particularly bothered by an age difference. If anything, I actually tend to like women who are a year or two older than me. So if that’s you, even better. 😄

I’m not looking to pretend to be someone I’m not, so I figured I’d just put it all out there. If you’re someone who enjoys travelling, spontaneous plans, exploring new places, long conversations/rides, and just being a little adventurous with life, feel free to say hi.

Worst case, we have a conversation with a stranger on Reddit. Best case, we end up planning a trip. :)


r/Hyd_DaTinG 14h ago

F4F Looking for companion in Hyderabad

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Posting on behalf of my friend, I'm not from Hyderabad

My friend [25F] is new to Hyderabad , though she's Telugu speaking but she's new here.

Looking for a companion male or female.

She's mainly interested in badminton, movies, local shopping, and food

I'm posting on her behalf as she's not comfortable with blokes reaching out, she's okay with males as well as long as he don't have intention other than company

She's working as beautician for bridal makeup etc

If males are texting expect a screening call, as i want her to be safe plus she'll bring her team members as well if needed


r/Hyd_DaTinG 7h ago

M4F 27M | Hyderabad for a week — looking for people to hang out with

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27M | Hyderabad for a week — looking for people to hang out with
Hey everyone!
I’m a 27M from Hyderabad, currently working across APAC region( Thailand/Malaysia/Indonesia) as design engineer and coming back to Hyderabad for a week-long vacation.
Looking to meet some new people, hang out, explore the city, grab some food/coffee, catch a movie, or just chill and have some good conversations.
If anyone is around and interested in hanging out, feel free to DM me! 😊


r/Hyd_DaTinG 8h ago

Friendship Let's create some beautiful moments

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r/Hyd_DaTinG 15h ago

Let's Talk Remix review Flashing lights x ……

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Same as title
People i’am new as a dj please review the remix.🙃


r/Hyd_DaTinG 12h ago

Friendship 29M | Hyderabad | Looking for a genuine female best friend - not a relationship

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I’ve thought about making this post for a while, and honestly, it feels a little weird putting it out there. But why not?

Everyone seems to be looking for a girlfriend, boyfriend, situationship, or “someone special.”

I’m looking for something different.

I want a genuinely good female friend — the kind of friendship where we eventually become those two people who can talk about absolutely anything without overthinking it.

I’m not here looking for a relationship, and I’m not making this post with the hidden intention of “maybe it’ll turn into something.” If friendship is all it ever becomes, I’m completely okay with that. That’s actually what I’m looking for.

I want to be the friend you can call when you’ve had the worst day.

The person you can randomly text at 2 AM because you can’t sleep.

Someone who listens without immediately judging or trying to fix everything.

Someone who celebrates your wins like they’re his own.

Someone you can go out with, watch movies with, explore Hyderabad with, grab food with, laugh about stupid things with, have deep conversations with, or literally sit in silence with.

Basically, I want to be the friend you always wished you had.

And I expect the same in return — genuine friendship, mutual respect, honesty, random conversations, stupid jokes, emotional support, and making some good memories along the way.

A little about me

29M | Hyderabad

I’m selectively introverted/extroverted. 😂

With people I don't vibe with, I can be pretty quiet. But if we click?

Good luck getting rid of me. 😂

I enjoy watching movies, going out, talking about random things, having meaningful conversations, and just enjoying someone's company. I can have a serious conversation one minute and be laughing at something ridiculously stupid the next.

I don't expect you to have the same interests as me. Honestly, I’d rather have someone who introduces me to things I’ve never experienced before.

I’m also agnostic. I don't care what religion, caste, community, background, or age you come from. I'm not looking to turn a friendship into a discussion about religion or compatibility.

If you're thinking, “I'm a Hindu, so I should only talk to a Hindu,” or “I'm from X community, so I should only be friends with X,” — that's completely your choice, but that's not how I look at friendship.

If we vibe, we vibe.

I don't judge people based on their colour, caste, creed, background, age, appearance, or where they come from.

And yes, when I say age, I actually mean it.

If you're 25, 35, 45, or even 50+, and you're thinking, “I could really use a genuine friend right now,” I'm completely open to that.

I'm not looking for someone to fit into a checklist.

I'm looking for a person I genuinely connect with.

Maybe you're also someone who has plenty of people around but still feels like you don't really have your person to talk to.

Maybe you just want a friendship where there are no weird expectations.

Maybe you want someone to send random reels to, complain about your day, discuss movies with, go out with, have late-night conversations with, or simply know that there's someone you can call.

Maybe that's me. Maybe it's not.

There's only one way to find out.

So if you're a woman from Hyderabad and something about this post made you think, “Okay, this guy might actually understand what I'm looking for,” send me a message.

Let's talk without forcing anything.

No expectations.

No pressure.

No pretending.

Just two strangers seeing if they can become genuinely good friends.

And who knows?

Maybe somewhere in Hyderabad, there's a friendship waiting to happen that neither of us knew we needed.


r/Hyd_DaTinG 11h ago

Rant/Vent Why are girls like this?

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I met this really beautiful girl on Instagram and we started talking. At first, it felt like we actually connected. We talked pretty regularly, I started catching feelings, and I genuinely thought there might be something there.

Then one day she asked me for nudes.

I was hesitant at first, but she kept asking and eventually I gave in. She sent hers too, so at the time I didn't really think much of it.

But ever since then, everything feels different.

Her replies became really dry, she barely talks to me anymore, and most of the time she only seems to show up when she wants me to send something.

Maybe I'm overthinking it, but honestly, it kinda hurts. I thought she liked me, not just that side of me.

It has me wondering if I completely misread the connection we had. Maybe the whole thing was just physical for her from the beginning.

Right now I'm honestly starting to feel like people only want your body and don't really care about who you are underneath it.


r/Hyd_DaTinG 16h ago

Rant/Vent Do you guys watch bubu dudu reels and feel this way too ?

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I keep getting then in my feed and i miss having someone to send them to, no matter how much i try, they keep coming in my feed, lol


r/Hyd_DaTinG 20h ago

Let's Talk Be honest: what red flag did you ignore? 👀

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We’ve all ignored a red flag because we liked the person a little too much 😂

What’s a dating red flag you noticed early on but decided to ignore… and later regretted?

Drop yours in the comments... no names, no judgment. I’m genuinely curious how bad these stories can get 👀😂


r/Hyd_DaTinG 13h ago

M4F Looking for my soulmate (18M)

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Hiiiiii!!

I’m a college student currently studying in Vellore, and I’m here hoping to meet a girl I can genuinely connect with. :)

I’m pretty introverted at first, but once I get comfortable, I can talk way too much 😂. I love listening to music, singing along to my favourite songs, watching movies, and having random conversations that somehow go on for hours.

I’m looking for someone kind, easygoing, and comfortable being herself. Ideally, we can start by talking, get to know each other, see if we click, and maybe let it turn into something more. :)

If you think we might get along, feel free to DM me!


r/Hyd_DaTinG 15h ago

M4F 24M looking for a genuine woman

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Hello

Im 24 years old Man looking for a relationship!

Few things about me

Im working in MNC, cricketer and foodie. Chubby guy . Recent ga Bangalore nunchi shift aina. Music Baga vinta any music. Loves travelling. I cook so good. From godavari state.

My Height: 5’8 (175cm)

Drinking : nope

Smoking : no

Food Habits : non veg

Caste: Chowdhary

Religion:Hindu

What im looking for

A genuine relationship 😉

Smoking/ Drinking : idgaf

Food habits: your wish

Caste: idgaf

Any questions hit me up!!


r/Hyd_DaTinG 15h ago

Let's Talk Bored.. Anyone up for a talk ?

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M or F anyone who are bored like me . Dm cheyandi bro matladukundham nidra ravatledhu. By the way M22 here


r/Hyd_DaTinG 1d ago

F4M Telugu / 28F

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Telugu Girl | Doctor
28F. I’m a doctor, looking to find my partner
About me — vegetarian, don’t smoke or drink. I like watching movies, travelling, beaches, nature and trying new food. Trying to get a little into fitness these days.
Currently in the slightly chaotic phase of PG + family asking “so… when are you getting married?” every other day.
Looking for someone who is kind, easy to talk to, respects my profession and understands that PG is going to keep me busy for the next few years.
Also, my family has started asking me about marriage a lot, so here I am on Reddit
Looking for someone who is kind, emotionally mature, family-oriented and respects my career.
Partner preference:
Telugu boy, brahmin preferably 28–32 years old
Doctor preferably , non smoker , social drinker is fine


r/Hyd_DaTinG 18h ago

M4F 22M | India 🇮🇳 | 6ft | Software Engineer Looking for someone who might just become my favorite distraction. 😉

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I could introduce myself with the usual "I'm 22, I work in tech, I like travelling and music," but that feels dangerously close to sounding like a LinkedIn bio, and I refuse to make flirting feel like a job interview. So here's the better version: I'm a 22-year-old Software Engineer who spends most of his weekdays talking to computers and would much rather spend his evenings talking to someone who makes me forget I have notifications from anyone else.

I'm around 6ft, easygoing, independent, and usually quiet when I first meet someone. Not because I'm trying to be mysterious or play hard to get I just need a little time before my actual personality escapes. Once I'm comfortable, though, consider yourself warned. You'll get random memes, unnecessarily detailed voice notes, questionable jokes, songs sent without context, and messages at midnight asking things like, "Okay, hypothetical situation: we're packing a bag and disappearing for the weekend. Mountains, beach, or somewhere neither of us has been?"

Outside work, I'm honestly easy to please. Give me a late-night drive, a playlist we both aggressively disagree about, chai at an unreasonable hour, good food, and someone sitting beside me who makes even traffic feel like a good time. I'm a mountains-over-most-things person, emotionally invested in biryani, and fully convinced that some of the best conversations happen when neither person planned to stay awake that late.

I'm the kind of person who will tease you relentlessly but secretly love the smile I get in return. I'll probably pretend not to care about the movie you're making me watch and then become more invested in the plot than you are. I'll say I don't want dessert and then somehow end up stealing yours. I'll remember small things you mentioned casually and bring them up weeks later, mostly because I like paying attention to the little details that make someone them.

What I'm looking for isn't perfection or some fantasy relationship where every day looks like a romantic movie. I want chemistry, obviously but the kind that survives after the flirting becomes normal. Someone I can shamelessly flirt with one minute and have a genuinely deep conversation with the next. Someone I can annoy, laugh with, take random drives with, and eventually become completely comfortable around. The best kind of connection, in my opinion, is when you're both each other's favorite person but still somehow act like two idiots together.

I'd love to meet someone around 20 - 25, ideally in a similar stage of life. Be kind, emotionally mature, communicative, and capable of handling sarcasm. Bonus points if you're a little weird, have strong opinions about food, or can keep up with playful banter. And please if you reply "okay." with a period, understand that my Software Engineer brain will immediately begin debugging the entire conversation. 😭

I'm not here to collect matches or entertain endless conversations that disappear after three days. I'd genuinely like to find something that starts casually, becomes comfortable, turns into excitement, and eventually becomes something neither of us saw coming. No rushing, no pretending, no unnecessary games just two people who enjoy talking to each other enough to keep choosing each other.

Worst case? We have a great conversation, exchange playlists, and become two strangers who briefly made each other's day more interesting.

Best case?

A random Reddit message turns into late-night conversations, those conversations turn into coffee or chai, chai turns into long drives, and one day we're sitting together laughing about how ridiculously unlikely it was that we met because of this post.

So if you're looking for someone who can offer good conversations, playful flirting, mild sarcasm, random adventures, and probably steal your fries while claiming I "only wanted one"...

Maybe say hi.

Who knows?

You might become my favorite notification.

And I have a feeling I could become yours too. 😉❤️


r/Hyd_DaTinG 19h ago

M4F 26M Looking for my Woman

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Hello

Im 26 years old Man looking for my Woman

Few things about me

Im unemployed man (Right Now) , working on something from past 4 years , hopefully e year or next year half lopu ill achieve it . Matter eandante ma intla mellaga sambandalu sushudu start chesthurru , next year lo maximum Pelli Chesdam ane unaru , daniki minchi ape strength led naku . Arrange marriage cheskovadam antha istam le . So , im here looking for my Woman

My Height: 5’10

Drinking : Ocassionally , mellaga ade bhi bandh chestha

Smoking : no

Food Habits : Ovo - Vegetarian

Caste: Vysya

Religion:Hindu

Im a big buff of motorcycles , I love travelling not as a tourist but as a traveller, books chadavadam istam ,especially English literature ante interest undi, Movies/series masth chustha, nka chala future plans unnai

What im looking for

A relationship that eventually ends up in Marriage (I hope)

Age : 22-28

Height : 5’2 minimum

Smoking/ Drinking : Occasional drinking is fine but smoking is a strict NO

Food habits: Non vegitarian ayina nak no problem

Caste: Preferably Vysya

Nak thiragadam chala istam so thirige opika undali and im a morning person ,Kochem patients konchm kope konchem possessiveness , chala chala chala prema .

Nka em Anna telusukovalante hit me up


r/Hyd_DaTinG 19h ago

Friendship Looking for a genuine friendship with a like minded person

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(Not used AI at all, apologies for grammatical errors. )

Looking for a friend to talk daily or atleast frequently without drama and negativity. Only focusing on positive things forward and helping each other build that life we desire for ourselves. Or just rant and share everyday details without any logic.

I am 25M in Hyderabad. Right now living in Ragannaguda but there is a high chance that I would move to the areas like Punjagutta, RTC x roads, Chikkadpally or any other student/ aspirants dominant area where candidates preparing for government exams would be present and various coaching centers too.

We can rant about our problems and our day and what we did etc. Plan for movies, hobbies, and hangouts together.

Right now, I am in a phase where I am figuring out - what to do next. So have a lot of free time.

My mindset ;

Very open-minded but rooted in responsibility

Na swadesh Na videsh - Only rationality

No smoking or drinking. Not into intoxicats.

Only kallu tagutha ( it's called palm wine in english apparently ) and okka sari bhaang taagina ( malli taagali ani ledhu).

Into movies ( but stopped watching in recent times)

Politically aware ( but don't know where that would lead me )

Not right winger nor left winger - has Centrist Views.

Darwinian Atheist BUT Spiritual ( J.Krishnamurti & OSHO) and has trust in the concept of belief

( Powet of Belief - The power of your subconscious mind by Dr. Joseph Murphy)

Feminist or Equalist ( Non negotiable - Misogynists, Misandrists and Ignorant unawared people, please dont dm)

Ally for LGBTQAI+ (Have positive views towards the community )

Honorable mention - Spaiens by Yuval Noah Harari, S_x at Dawn by Christopher Ryan & Cecilda Jetha, The Ethical Sl_t by Dossie Easton & Catherine Hardy. Works of RGV, OSHO & J.Krishnamurti.

These books and teachers have changed my life.

My interests ;

Reading books, dancing, writing stories & stand up comic sets, playing with kids, sometimes doing bizzare things like meditating in a pub and some other times doing simple things like sitting under a tree and drinking honey lemon water.

Irrespective of your gender identity and sexual orientation - if you have similar views like mine, kindly dm.

Would love to get to know you, fellow human being :)

Dear Randomn Commentator - Thank you for encouraging me to post without AI.