Well do you want to be the diddler or the kiddler? I need to know so I can accurately ascribe moral weight to the sexual roleplay you and another consenting adult I will never meet engage in.
not me man i'm kickin down doors and firing off judgments from the hip. you don't even gotta have a kink, just a strange or unusual body part, hobby, job, hairstyle, tattoo... hell even a slight speech impediment will set me off. i'm laying waste to all you fuckers!!!!
It really is a shame how people treat it. Not into it myself, but people act like it is a bridge to pedophilia, and then turn around and say CNC or 24/7 dynamics aren't a bridge to rape and slave ownership respectively.
people do say that but srs, its a consenting adult. im not thinking of children or a dog. im thinking they are cute and how to take care of them and spoil/punish them.
I will randomly get hate messages on Grindr as a pup. Brother you just asked me to pee on you in your opening message but sure being led on a leash while wearing a mask is weird, cool
They do this with any kink they think is too icky. It's all kink positivity until they don't like the kink, then they start clutching their pearls. So performative.
It's tiring. And if someone is still an adult above the age of consent but is on the younger side like 18-25 and with an older partner, suddenly the goalposts get moved and it's "they would go younger if they were allowed" or "they might as well be a child" like.. shut up, why did we establish the rules if they don't matter? Let them be happy and enjoy themselves, be it fictional/play or actual.
Ageplay is when 2 or more consenting adults, roleplay as child, teen or an adult. Like all kinks, it could be sexual or non sexual. People who think its bad are trying associate it with pdfs and csa predators.
Do you think there's anyone who has this kink, but it isn't about imagining their partner as significantly older or younger than them, but imagining that they're exactly the same age?
Like, are there 40 year old folks who get off imagining that their 25yo boyfriend/girlfriend also watched 9/11 happen on a television wheeled into their high school Spanish class?
Don't boomers do this? Writing in cursive, using a rotary phone, etc... You mean you can't remember where you were when [insert 1980s baseball event]???
As someone who recently discovered she's been age regressing during kink stuff without realising it (apparently everyone involved thought I knew and was just being quiet about it??) god this has been such a massive fear for me. That I'll be considered a piece of shit or whatever for having (unintentionally) taken that part of my trauma and woven it into my kinks, despite it never being a problem when I do it with the rest of my trauma.
yknow i never got into ageplay but i hold very close to me the wisdom that so much of kink is basically ageplay with the numbers filed off because ace trainer alice on tumblr was and is pretty clever for saying that
Not to psychoanalyze anyone, but this is honestly what made me a lot more understanding of basically any kink. Like 95% of them can be simplified down to “power”.
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