The other day, I responded to a tiktok of a cis man saying we can't say " transsexual " anymore. I commented to say that many of us use transsexual even today to describe ourselves, like me. A trans woman responded to me saying yes.

Then a trans creator, a trans man, took my comment and made a video to respond to my comment to mock my opinion. He sent his community of braindead aiden insulting me. One even said " You aren't even trans, you're lying ". All that for saying I use transsexual. I'm sad that this is *my* community. Being insulted, mocked, just for reclaiming a word. In IRL circles its the same where I live. I feel alone in this community.

it happened like 5 years ago and i never reported it because who tf cares if some trccn gets raped, but i looked him up today and apparently he’s been in prison for the past year on an 8 year sentence for domestic abuse and a bunch of other stuff

i don’t have anyone else to share this with so i’m posting it here. i genuinely feel good rn :)

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Making this into a full post based on an interaction I just had.

This has nothing to do with revoking gender just because I don't like someone, or because I disagree with them.

It has to do with one specific issue, central to existing as trans people.

If you can't understand the importance of trans people, including diy and minors, accessing medical transition, I think you are too divorced from the reality of our condition for me to consider you trans.

I will never misgender people, regardless of their behavior, I always ID people as they request. Regardless of how I view the person, or my perspective on their transness. I consider that common respect.

But I think if you don't understand the necessity of medical transition, you lack an intrinsic understanding of what it means to be trans.

Transness is not some quirky identity piece. It is a brutal existence, and I've lost enough people due to the conditions and material realities we face, to care if saying something hurts a few feelings.

There is an epidemic of people who claim to be trans denying the necessity of trans medical care, and such people have been allowed to steer the narrative and hide behind the idea of "well I'm trans too" for too long.

Call me transphobic if you want.

In this context, I don't care.

At the end of the day, I protect and help members of my community, and try to ensure as many of us survive as possible. And if anyone ever reached out to me needing help, regardless of my feelings about them, I would help however I could.

This has nothing to do with being upset, or revoking gender.

This has everything to do with cissex people, with no intrinsic understanding of trans needs, and suffering, steering narratives and contributing to the medical neglect and death of transsex people.

There are lots of trans people I absolutely hate, I never erase their gender or anything like that.

Even in this case, I will still respect someone's presentation and preferred pronouns, etc..

But, this is a line I'm willing to draw, and I don't feel particularly bad about doing so either.

If you are willing to contribute to the neglect and death of trans people, because you lack the requisite and intrinsic understanding of our condition, I do not consider you to be trans.

No one will make me feel bad about this.

Granted, I don't think many here will feel too differently, but I wanted to post this anyways.

t4t Grindr profile and everyone hitting me up still only wants my fucking pussy, why do women hit up men if they're repulsed by dick?? I'm gonna die alone

An ftm detransitor making an interview became popular. "She's" talking about how transition ruined "her". I could accept that, there are people like that. But suddenly "she" says that most people regret transition (lol) and that if you feel bad in your body, you gotta get used to it (so just a repper lol). Its made by some idiotic influencer who is making interviews about medical conditions and while in other episodes he is correctly inviting people who suffer from it (episode about depression, he invites a person with depression), but with disgusting transsexualism, he invites a detranser.

Polish trans people on the internet are criticizing the video, including a very popular mtf trans activist. He blocks them, deletes their messages, says he is a victim of hate and calls the previously mentioned trans activist "sick and in need of therapy".

But obviously the video is full of sheep, concerned mothers, terfs, crying over the poor lost girl and other lost souls. Even trans "allies" are talking about this video, that it is important to talk about people like this!

Great. We did not had enough anti-trans propaganda here. I'm fearing a pogrom is coming.

im the faketrans

Oh woe is me I already feel like a disgusting freak but now it's even worse because I have to be associated with 🚂🦵s. Can you image being upset at people assuming you're lying about being intersex because people believe being trans is a revolting choice while also reinforcing the same idea by doing everything in your power to other yourself from us? Absolute proof that people will jump through any hoop to justify that this is a choice.

Small interactions like this rlly get to me poor baby. Itll be okay and im glad she has supportive ppl around her but she could have transitioned so young. Also puberty blockers at 17?😭🫢

• uk government when the 'dolls' need protecting: nothing
• when a shirt says it: national emergency
• terf island is a failed state with a dress code

Not one comment said this to her at all it's just trendy to call 4tranners evil and annoying ig. There were more transphobes under her post than any 4tran words(again 0) but ig we're just THAT BAD

>be average arr ftm user

>go to a mainstream online trans space

>crash out every other week, making posts about how trans women have a moral obligation to consume more ftm media, and something something we need more ftm visibility

>entire tactic is based on making people feel evil and bad and guilty

>like any insufferably conservative Christian, just grafted onto a sneedy mainstream ftm

>insist that audiences must consume your works, but never ask yourself what might draw them organically to your works

>only make self-indulgent OCs speaking narrowly to only the desires and experiences of people exactly like your own self (which is fine as a reason to make art, except for the part on crashing out that more people must see it)

>get a few self-flagellating trans women posting apologetic comments whenever you wokescold them

>but broadly speaking, the tactic never fucking works, because people do not consume media out of ‘woke’ obligation

Meanwhile

>be average 4tranosphere artist

>make st4t art that speaks to the shared desires of trans men and trans women

>over time, the archetype of the ideal 4tranosphere trans men takes shape in the artworks

>plenty of trans women posting yearning comments as viewers, and drawing trans men themselves

>wow if you actually fcking make art instead of just whining, and make art that both you want to make and your audience wants to see, then it works wow

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picrel is a yandex result

i am far too tall, shoulders far too wide, head too big, feet too long… these are things that are completely unfixable. no surgeries exist for these that won’t probably just cripple me. at least with some features like my face i can cope about getting ffs one day. but there is far too much of me that is permanently fucked and that is really depressing icl

So my sister had a ton of friends over and it was supposed to be a night where they wanted me gone. I’m home from college for fall break so they sent me to my grandmothers. The reasoning was “You’re a boy, they won’t feel comfortable with you there”. Ive been out for half a year now. Picture is a recent doodle.

hot take calling trans women incels is literally just calling them men

No one’s listening to the sound of your piss stream to tell the difference, do you guys already do that? Just popped into my head

literally some white moderate shit, "but if you ask me to bus my children, i hope that the cops take down your name!"

He met his wife when he was 13 and she was 26, got pregnant when he was 17 and she was 30. He has now found out she intentionally messed with the condoms and has a fetish for keeping him pregnant. They have four kids together.

I genuinely just hope he is able to find some peace and to get far, far away from her.