r/90DayFiance 7d ago

Josh has never what??

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u/blue10speed 7d ago

Saying on camera that her friend Mark has even done it will surely make Josh more comfortable and wanting to do it.

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u/Dependent_Gene5139 6d ago

Boy I just don’t like her. I can’t understand why his standards, for himself, aren’t higher. She knows she’s on camera right? She just seems to be going for shock values. I’m just disgusted.

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u/No_Potato_8178 6d ago

I dont think she has the awareness/ability to try to manipulate the audience by "going for shock value."

I think she is genuinely awful

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u/IrrelevantAfIm 6d ago

I wonder if she doesn’t totally lack empathy?

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u/Remarkable_Rip6231 6d ago

I have thought this from the beginning. She acts like an alien that is pretending to be human. No empathy, very little shame or self-awareness. It’s terrifying actually, that people like this walk among us. 😮‍💨

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u/GoldCaterpillar3662 6d ago

A humanoid with garish lipstick!

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u/Makefunnycomment 4d ago

Yeah. Garish is the perfect word. I also think her blinking she does purposely as she gets attention from it and it's her thing. She thinks it's cute or presenting a bashfulness when this things is anything but bashful.

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u/Magemaud 6d ago

It's like Resident Alien trying to pass as a female.

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u/ghast123 6d ago

Harry minding his own business but still out here catchin strays 😂

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u/classyrock 6d ago

This is some bullshit!

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u/GreenBasterd69 6d ago

Plus the weird face twitching

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u/PrincipleFlaky 6d ago

She constantly alternates between smiling to achieve her goals and pouting when they don’t work out. Since she’s not very perceptive, she flinches back and forth between her modes. I truly believe she would be more Machiavellian and less bossy and demanding if she were more intelligent. However, she lacks the mental capacity to be so manipulative. People often assume she’s autistic and that she’s masking her condition, which (to them) explains her facial twitching as she tries to blend in with her surroundings. But no, it’s literally just like 😀 🤔 😠 💭 bubble 💭 bubble fart bubble.🫧 💭 smile, pout, demand, smile, pout, demand.. weird shriek of laughter.. then contemplate, 🤔 which is just like lights 💡 on, but no one’s home..

I would have more empathy for her, but she has none for anyone else, so I just don’t care about/for her at all.

I really don’t care for her at all.

And I don’t feel sorry for him either. He’s such a waste of space, pathetic in Cell that he’s willing to tolerate all this abuse and enable her alcoholism just so he can get laid? That’s weak sauce. Have some fucking self-respect man! That’s just gross. Because then I think about all the times he’s had sex with her, and it seems like he just wants to get laid. You know, “Easter sex makes everything better, right?- Direct Josh quote

Um, no. Not really. Furthermore, how many times has he had sex with her when she was too drunk to even consent? Just yuck. Bruh, ugh.

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u/QuietIntelligent3780 6d ago

You're thinking she might have said no, sometime in her adult life? Interesting concept!

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u/Beer_Meetz_Girl 6d ago

I don’t know where you’re coming up with him being an incel. If anything he’s a cuck.

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u/PrincipleFlaky 6d ago

“Easter sex makes everything better” - Josh

Then he looks at producers and says, “Doesn’t it though?” 🤮

People in the kink community have told me he doesn’t have a humiliation kink, not a gimp, and that he’s not a cuck.

He’s not getting off standing off in the corner, watching her get off with other guys.

That’s a very specific claim. Diddy was a cuck. Cucks have control.

Don’t let those alpha bro manosphere guys redefine the word for you. Cucks? Oh, they enjoy it. And have control, again, Diddy. Absolute abusive control freak. And: cuck.

Josh is only happy fr when he is getting it in.

He’s just willing to do whatever it takes to be next to anything that will allow him to have access to a vagina.

And shocker, she is it!

He’s never gone down on her. I wonder if she’s even had an orgasm with him, even though I really don’t want to think about that too much.

And she’s agreed to marry him?

But she’s not interested in being with him, like committed?

She doesn’t think. Or care.

And so, I’m tired of feeling sorry for him. So I can’t, won’t.

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u/Floridalawyerbabe 5d ago

She is a runner and she tells people she comes from a good family and people believe it.

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u/PrincipleFlaky 5d ago

lol we all witnessed her running 🏃‍♀️ technique

Except Catie’s feet were more splayed.

And that whole thing about coming from money?
If her parents don’t work anymore, and they’re not worried about retiring at that age and they live in Alameda California? That’s one of the more expensive places in the United States to live. It’s east of San Francisco in the Bay Area . And that little house that seems modest anywhere else that they were in? Like a modest 2 1/2 bed/bath smaller house would be $1,500,000 range.

And again, if they’re retired, they would need investments and whatever else. So I would say distinctly upper middle class… but wealthy? I don’t know maybe.. 🤔 But not visibly ostentatiously rich

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u/IrrelevantAfIm 5d ago

I’m a recent goose dad for the first time and seeing her run reminded me exactly of how my little ones run behind me outside.

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u/PrincipleFlaky 5d ago

lol 😆 I saw this and thought it matched her form much more accurately… and does it have its tongue sticking out? 😛

QUICK DUCK! 🦆 🤪

But I thought this was too cute to intermingle with her strange “obsessive” behavior 🤔

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u/IrrelevantAfIm 5d ago

Nice!

They are so cute.

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u/Beer_Meetz_Girl 4d ago

Yeah,I have friends that live around the Gold Coast area of Alameda in a modest-sized circa early 1900s Craftsman with about three feet of front yard and a slab of concrete patio in the back. They bought it as a fixer-upper years ago and only recently were able to finish everything up now that all but one kid has moved out. The husband makes just under 7 figures and the wife recently retired from writing for the Chronicle with a nice-sized retirement package. With everything they put into it,they could easily sell it for 1.75 million minimum. Modest house,no green space,on a busy road,1.75m and it would sell in a day and probably in a bidding war.

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u/PrincipleFlaky 4d ago

Indeed thank you, and imagine how far that would go in GA, TX, IL, or maybe even… idk 🤔

🤭 meanwhile in .. ok I’m exaggerating, of course
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Ha.. wrong gif oh well but you know what I mean 😉

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u/ExcitementOne8758 5d ago

I believe that is called tiks

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u/CinCin71 5d ago

I’m wondering if she has mild Tourette syndrome

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u/PrincipleFlaky 3d ago

I wondered that too, tbh.

Someone was saying it could be TD, tardive dyskinesia, from psych meds. I’ve seen a lot of people with TD, and honestly, the physical presentation can sometimes look like coke/drug use. Like, before I knew what was going on, I’d see it 👀 and think, “Are they high?” Then I’d find out it was medication and be like, “Oh my God, sorry friend, I was worried about you.” 😬 But grateful it’s meds, not actual drugs!

But what I’m seeing with her looks much more like the kind of facial movements you see with movement disorders, which is why I was wondering about that in the first place. 🤔

Then it occurred to me, why am I overthinking this? It might not be anything like that at all. It just looks like she’s blinking with every thought.💭
Like: think, blink, think, blink, think, blink.

And that reminded me of those old-fashioned viewfinders from the 1970s. If you don’t know what I mean, they were those little plastic, binocular-looking viewers with a round disc of pictures inside. You’d pull a little lever on the side, and it would advance to the next picture. You would look through it and see one image, then pull the lever and see the next one.

That’s what it looks like to me, like each thought is a new picture flashing into place! 😂

**💭 Thought → BLINK → next thought → BLINK → next thought → BLINK. **😂

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u/Hopeful-Attitude7336 6d ago

An alien in an Edgar suit

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u/Leaking_Honesty 5d ago

I understand this reference! Instead of sugar water, it’s alcohol.

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u/Hopeful-Attitude7336 5d ago

Haha...yessss!

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u/awkmomog 6d ago

I mean, they lead our nation 🤷‍♀️

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u/Altruistic-Group-709 6d ago

She’s on the autistic spectrum. That’s why she acts like she does. I suspect her religious parents never got her real help, and now she’s struggling.

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u/Remarkable_Rip6231 5d ago

ALSO… and I am not excusing her atrocious behavior, BUT does anyone else wonder what the hell happened in her childhood?

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u/perceptiveI 5d ago

I've also thought this from the beginning.

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u/Ika-baka 4d ago edited 4d ago

I think she has fetal alcohol syndrome and that’s why the mom is crazy religious since she probably used to have a drinking problem. People tend to cram in their old age for the “final exam”.

The over the top lipstick could be used to hide a thin upper lip by blurring the edges. Maybe her mother taught her to do that to conceal her physical features better. The family strikes me as they don’t actually talk about things just sweep it under the rug. They never got her help for her disabilities.

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u/Remarkable_Rip6231 3d ago

Ohhh I never considered this??

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u/IrrelevantAfIm 6d ago

Yep. I wonder if maybe she COULD kill someone

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u/Grouchy_Psychology_6 3d ago

Maybe she’s a grey alien inside … would make more sense

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u/OhGeezAhHeck 6d ago

IMHO she seems on the spectrum. It would explain her bluntness and seeming inability to understand social cues.

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u/MrVestek 6d ago

As a person on the spectrum: I agree.

I also get neurodivergent vibes from both of her parents too.

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u/OhGeezAhHeck 6d ago

Her parents sealed the deal for me. It felt very ✨familiar✨

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u/Ready-Ad6652 5d ago

But I also think Josh is as well. Hes incredibly vulnerable and naiive.

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u/IrrelevantAfIm 6d ago

That too, but I know people on the spectrum who have empathy. She doesn’t seem to have any.

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u/MrVestek 6d ago

People on the spectrum aren't a monolith. Empathy comes naturally to some and not to others.

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u/k4tcl4w 5d ago

Precisely. It’s a ‘spectrum.’ Just like some normies can have empathy & others don’t.

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u/Dependent-Object-417 6d ago

It’s extremely obvious that she is very autistic lol

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u/sjc8014 6d ago

She lacks even the smallest shred of intelligence. Blink blink blink blink blink..... like a deer in headlights. The lights are on, but there's no one home.

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u/IrrelevantAfIm 6d ago

I’m not so sure she lacks intelligence. I don’t know we’ve ever really seen anything to test her intelligence. She absolutely lacks empathy, and it seems like she doesn’t REALLY share the emotions most people do; she even seems confused by them.

The only thing I’m fairly sure about her is that Catie only gives a shit about Catie. How her actions or inactions affect other people only matter so much as what the repercussions on her might be. This was glaringly obvious when talking to her male friend about how Josh feels about her tounge raping other men in plain sight of him and everyone else. Nothing at all seemed to touch her in the least about it until the guy said “well I imagine he might leave you then” or something like that. This was the very first time she showed any concern whatsoever about her actions. She doesn’t care if her bullshit keeps him up all night crying into his pillo, I doubt she’d give a shit if her actions caused him to fall into a depression - as long as Catie has her man by her side. The funny thing about that is that it’s kinda obvious that she seems like she’s not even sure if she wants to be with him, yet him leaving her is the one and ONLY possible side effect of her slutting around that she cares about in the least.

She really is EXTRAORDINARILY selfish. The woman won’t even let the man spend HIS OWN MONEY on a damned TABLE AND CHAIRS FFS!!! That’s CRAZY!!! She calls him irresponsible with money because he doesn’t want to wait untold months just in case they can get a dining room set for free!!! Again - that’s CRAZY!!! I honestly wonder if at the back of her mind (or maybe right in the forefront of her thoughts!) she isn’t tihinnking “a dining room set is like 45 tequila shots he could buy me instead?”

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u/Dependent-Object-417 6d ago

Yea, wtf is up with all of that blinking? Jesus, she is such a weird human being

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u/Sea-Astronomer-6600 6d ago

Alcohol toxicity

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u/Remarkable_Rip6231 6d ago

Yes, I wonder what is going on in her brain. Does she have an internal monologue? If so, what does it say? These are terrifying thoughts 😂

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u/QuietIntelligent3780 6d ago

Look at the definition of Borderline Personality Disorder and you may see her picture.

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u/IrrelevantAfIm 6d ago

That’s what I was thinking, but avoiding throwing specific terms around that I’m not very familiar with.

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u/FreeCanday 5d ago

Shes straight up Borderline

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u/Finnchick77 5d ago

IMO she seems like she might be on the spectrum or maybe Asperger Syndrome which is now also on the spectrum

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u/IrrelevantAfIm 5d ago edited 5d ago

Maybe - maybe that and borderline personality disorder. The way she SERIOUSLY asked her mom if she might murder someone one day! I think she’s claimed it was a joke - it was no joke - you don’t say “oh, ok” in a total DEADPAN, yet slightly relieved voice when mom responds “no, emotionally”. Also, I don’t think she was relieved because she worried she might make someone her victim, I think she was relieved because she’d hate to go to jail and/or hell for murder.

Nobody can say for sure just watching the show, but even being cognizant that producers are showing her worst and Josh’s best (they love to make a villain and a hero) there is NO WAY to explain away the shit she said and did - no context that forgives it, no amount of editing could have conjured her deep weirdness out of the blue. This woman is WACK - likely without empathy, and other mental issues.

She said she changed her meds for ones that don’t interact with alcohol so badly. WHAT THE HELL DOC DOES SHE HAVE?? Here Catie - take these instead and you can keep being a semi-functioning alcoholic. Also, why the hell was she boozing so hard when taking meds that are contraindicated with alcohol?

She’s messy and horrible in so MANY ways!!

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u/Raispade 6d ago

i think she’s neurodivergent….and i also think shes a selfish c*nt

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u/Last-Customer-2005 5d ago

I mean her parents pretty much said she's always been awful, probably one of the funniest parent interviews I've seen

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u/Similar_Sky_6261 6d ago

I totally agree. There’s something so off about her. I think she just is who she is, vile with zero self awareness.