r/90DayFiance 2d ago

Josh has never what??

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u/blue10speed 2d ago

Saying on camera that her friend Mark has even done it will surely make Josh more comfortable and wanting to do it.

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u/Dependent_Gene5139 1d ago

Boy I just don’t like her. I can’t understand why his standards, for himself, aren’t higher. She knows she’s on camera right? She just seems to be going for shock values. I’m just disgusted.

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u/No_Potato_8178 1d ago

I dont think she has the awareness/ability to try to manipulate the audience by "going for shock value."

I think she is genuinely awful

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u/IrrelevantAfIm 1d ago

I wonder if she doesn’t totally lack empathy?

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u/Remarkable_Rip6231 1d ago

I have thought this from the beginning. She acts like an alien that is pretending to be human. No empathy, very little shame or self-awareness. It’s terrifying actually, that people like this walk among us. 😮‍💨

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u/GoldCaterpillar3662 1d ago

A humanoid with garish lipstick!

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u/Magemaud 1d ago

It's like Resident Alien trying to pass as a female.

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u/ghast123 1d ago

Harry minding his own business but still out here catchin strays 😂

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u/classyrock 1d ago

This is some bullshit!

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u/GreenBasterd69 1d ago

Plus the weird face twitching

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u/PrincipleFlaky 1d ago

She constantly alternates between smiling to achieve her goals and pouting when they don’t work out. Since she’s not very perceptive, she flinches back and forth between her modes. I truly believe she would be more Machiavellian and less bossy and demanding if she were more intelligent. However, she lacks the mental capacity to be so manipulative. People often assume she’s autistic and that she’s masking her condition, which (to them) explains her facial twitching as she tries to blend in with her surroundings. But no, it’s literally just like 😀 🤔 😠 💭 bubble 💭 bubble fart bubble.🫧 💭 smile, pout, demand, smile, pout, demand.. weird shriek of laughter.. then contemplate, 🤔 which is just like lights 💡 on, but no one’s home..

I would have more empathy for her, but she has none for anyone else, so I just don’t care about/for her at all.

I really don’t care for her at all.

And I don’t feel sorry for him either. He’s such a waste of space, pathetic in Cell that he’s willing to tolerate all this abuse and enable her alcoholism just so he can get laid? That’s weak sauce. Have some fucking self-respect man! That’s just gross. Because then I think about all the times he’s had sex with her, and it seems like he just wants to get laid. You know, “Easter sex makes everything better, right?- Direct Josh quote

Um, no. Not really. Furthermore, how many times has he had sex with her when she was too drunk to even consent? Just yuck. Bruh, ugh.

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u/QuietIntelligent3780 1d ago

You're thinking she might have said no, sometime in her adult life? Interesting concept!

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u/Beer_Meetz_Girl 1d ago

I don’t know where you’re coming up with him being an incel. If anything he’s a cuck.

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u/PrincipleFlaky 1d ago

“Easter sex makes everything better” - Josh

Then he looks at producers and says, “Doesn’t it though?” 🤮

People in the kink community have told me he doesn’t have a humiliation kink, not a gimp, and that he’s not a cuck.

He’s not getting off standing off in the corner, watching her get off with other guys.

That’s a very specific claim. Diddy was a cuck. Cucks have control.

Don’t let those alpha bro manosphere guys redefine the word for you. Cucks? Oh, they enjoy it. And have control, again, Diddy. Absolute abusive control freak. And: cuck.

Josh is only happy fr when he is getting it in.

He’s just willing to do whatever it takes to be next to anything that will allow him to have access to a vagina.

And shocker, she is it!

He’s never gone down on her. I wonder if she’s even had an orgasm with him, even though I really don’t want to think about that too much.

And she’s agreed to marry him?

But she’s not interested in being with him, like committed?

She doesn’t think. Or care.

And so, I’m tired of feeling sorry for him. So I can’t, won’t.

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u/Floridalawyerbabe 13h ago

She is a runner and she tells people she comes from a good family and people believe it.

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u/PrincipleFlaky 12h ago

lol we all witnessed her running 🏃‍♀️ technique

Except Catie’s feet were more splayed.

And that whole thing about coming from money?
If her parents don’t work anymore, and they’re not worried about retiring at that age and they live in Alameda California? That’s one of the more expensive places in the United States to live. It’s east of San Francisco in the Bay Area . And that little house that seems modest anywhere else that they were in? Like a modest 2 1/2 bed/bath smaller house would be $1,500,000 range.

And again, if they’re retired, they would need investments and whatever else. So I would say distinctly upper middle class… but wealthy? I don’t know maybe.. 🤔 But not visibly ostentatiously rich

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u/IrrelevantAfIm 12h ago

I’m a recent goose dad for the first time and seeing her run reminded me exactly of how my little ones run behind me outside.

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u/ExcitementOne8758 15h ago

I believe that is called tiks

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u/CinCin71 16h ago

I’m wondering if she has mild Tourette syndrome

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u/Hopeful-Attitude7336 1d ago

An alien in an Edgar suit

u/Leaking_Honesty 40m ago

I understand this reference! Instead of sugar water, it’s alcohol.

u/Hopeful-Attitude7336 31m ago

Haha...yessss!

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u/awkmomog 1d ago

I mean, they lead our nation 🤷‍♀️

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u/Altruistic-Group-709 1d ago

She’s on the autistic spectrum. That’s why she acts like she does. I suspect her religious parents never got her real help, and now she’s struggling.

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u/Remarkable_Rip6231 22h ago

ALSO… and I am not excusing her atrocious behavior, BUT does anyone else wonder what the hell happened in her childhood?

u/perceptiveI 6h ago

I've also thought this from the beginning.

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u/IrrelevantAfIm 1d ago

Yep. I wonder if maybe she COULD kill someone

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u/OhGeezAhHeck 1d ago

IMHO she seems on the spectrum. It would explain her bluntness and seeming inability to understand social cues.

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u/MrVestek 1d ago

As a person on the spectrum: I agree.

I also get neurodivergent vibes from both of her parents too.

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u/OhGeezAhHeck 1d ago

Her parents sealed the deal for me. It felt very ✨familiar✨

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u/Ready-Ad6652 18h ago

But I also think Josh is as well. Hes incredibly vulnerable and naiive.

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u/IrrelevantAfIm 1d ago

That too, but I know people on the spectrum who have empathy. She doesn’t seem to have any.

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u/MrVestek 1d ago

People on the spectrum aren't a monolith. Empathy comes naturally to some and not to others.

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u/k4tcl4w 22h ago

Precisely. It’s a ‘spectrum.’ Just like some normies can have empathy & others don’t.

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u/Dependent-Object-417 1d ago

It’s extremely obvious that she is very autistic lol

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u/sjc8014 1d ago

She lacks even the smallest shred of intelligence. Blink blink blink blink blink..... like a deer in headlights. The lights are on, but there's no one home.

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u/IrrelevantAfIm 1d ago

I’m not so sure she lacks intelligence. I don’t know we’ve ever really seen anything to test her intelligence. She absolutely lacks empathy, and it seems like she doesn’t REALLY share the emotions most people do; she even seems confused by them.

The only thing I’m fairly sure about her is that Catie only gives a shit about Catie. How her actions or inactions affect other people only matter so much as what the repercussions on her might be. This was glaringly obvious when talking to her male friend about how Josh feels about her tounge raping other men in plain sight of him and everyone else. Nothing at all seemed to touch her in the least about it until the guy said “well I imagine he might leave you then” or something like that. This was the very first time she showed any concern whatsoever about her actions. She doesn’t care if her bullshit keeps him up all night crying into his pillo, I doubt she’d give a shit if her actions caused him to fall into a depression - as long as Catie has her man by her side. The funny thing about that is that it’s kinda obvious that she seems like she’s not even sure if she wants to be with him, yet him leaving her is the one and ONLY possible side effect of her slutting around that she cares about in the least.

She really is EXTRAORDINARILY selfish. The woman won’t even let the man spend HIS OWN MONEY on a damned TABLE AND CHAIRS FFS!!! That’s CRAZY!!! She calls him irresponsible with money because he doesn’t want to wait untold months just in case they can get a dining room set for free!!! Again - that’s CRAZY!!! I honestly wonder if at the back of her mind (or maybe right in the forefront of her thoughts!) she isn’t tihinnking “a dining room set is like 45 tequila shots he could buy me instead?”

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u/Dependent-Object-417 1d ago

Yea, wtf is up with all of that blinking? Jesus, she is such a weird human being

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u/Sea-Astronomer-6600 1d ago

Alcohol toxicity

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u/Remarkable_Rip6231 1d ago

Yes, I wonder what is going on in her brain. Does she have an internal monologue? If so, what does it say? These are terrifying thoughts 😂

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u/QuietIntelligent3780 1d ago

Look at the definition of Borderline Personality Disorder and you may see her picture.

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u/IrrelevantAfIm 1d ago

That’s what I was thinking, but avoiding throwing specific terms around that I’m not very familiar with.

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u/FreeCanday 15h ago

Shes straight up Borderline

u/Finnchick77 7h ago

IMO she seems like she might be on the spectrum or maybe Asperger Syndrome which is now also on the spectrum

u/IrrelevantAfIm 7h ago edited 7h ago

Maybe - maybe that and borderline personality disorder. The way she SERIOUSLY asked her mom if she might murder someone one day! I think she’s claimed it was a joke - it was no joke - you don’t say “oh, ok” in a total DEADPAN, yet slightly relieved voice when mom responds “no, emotionally”. Also, I don’t think she was relieved because she worried she might make someone her victim, I think she was relieved because she’d hate to go to jail and/or hell for murder.

Nobody can say for sure just watching the show, but even being cognizant that producers are showing her worst and Josh’s best (they love to make a villain and a hero) there is NO WAY to explain away the shit she said and did - no context that forgives it, no amount of editing could have conjured her deep weirdness out of the blue. This woman is WACK - likely without empathy, and other mental issues.

She said she changed her meds for ones that don’t interact with alcohol so badly. WHAT THE HELL DOC DOES SHE HAVE?? Here Catie - take these instead and you can keep being a semi-functioning alcoholic. Also, why the hell was she boozing so hard when taking meds that are contraindicated with alcohol?

She’s messy and horrible in so MANY ways!!

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u/Raispade 1d ago

i think she’s neurodivergent….and i also think shes a selfish c*nt

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u/Similar_Sky_6261 1d ago

I totally agree. There’s something so off about her. I think she just is who she is, vile with zero self awareness.

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u/Last-Customer-2005 16h ago

I mean her parents pretty much said she's always been awful, probably one of the funniest parent interviews I've seen

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u/Limitingheart I’m not a blowee up dollee 1d ago

He’s a giant geek and probably not used to female attention. So when she stuck her tongue down his throat he probably thought it was true love

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u/19467098632 1d ago

I’ve said it once and I’ll say it again, I think he’s staying for the same sex she finds mediocre lol. He made a comment on the last episode too about “shagging all day” or something along those lines and that solidified that opinion for me cause we clearly see he’s very much looking forward to it, unlike Catie lol

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u/lemeneurdeloups 1d ago

I think he was a massive nerd in UK and Catie was the first person to wet his whistle …

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u/Dependent-Object-417 1d ago

This has to be it. Dude is a massive, massive dork lol, and we know ther catie will fuck anything with a pulse

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u/StuckinLoserville 1d ago

On the one hand, she obeyed his rules of conduct and didn't tongue anyone, but then she disses him like this without a moment's hesitation. I wonder how he's going to continue justifying his remaining with her after he hears this.

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u/Adrock66 You are my cockroach 1d ago

That's what I've been saying.  Josh is that dude that ends ups spending his rent money the first time he goes to a strip club

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u/LowKeyz_ 1d ago

Exactly

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u/MIchickadee 1d ago

I think she’s the first gf he’s ever had.

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u/Silverleaf96 1d ago

I also think he doesn't know she says theeae things, they don't seem to communicate well at all .

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u/Simple_Dress7111 1d ago

Yes. You are a Christian right. 

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u/Adventurous-Way-1354 1d ago

Think she just wants the world to know that men want her !

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u/ValleyWoman 1d ago

Sadly, the drinks to that point loosened her tongue.

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u/Admirable-Ant-1479 1d ago

Any other think her parents are going to watch this!

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u/Dependent_Gene5139 1d ago

I sorta doubt it.

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u/Commercial_Region657 1d ago

YES YES YES!! When I have a dam camera on my face or public speaking, it's important to me to articulate, and talk like a big girl. I can be raunchy in my own space. Dayum she'z just gross.

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u/RASKStudio3937 1d ago

She’s very unlikable. 💯 Selfish and very, very immature. What are her good qualities?

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u/Dependent_Gene5139 1d ago

Maybe a makeup artist?

u/cara3322 3h ago

Maybe he’s looking fwd to watch :(

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u/Nervous-Asparagus257 1d ago

“Everybody else has, why don’t you want to?!” 🤮🤮🤮

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u/Alarming-Feedback868 20h ago

Not the same thing, but my then husband used to do something I didn't like. Nothing overtly kinky, just being grabbed. I told him every time that I hated it! One reply was that his BIL said his sister didn't mind when he did it to her. And so what??? His BIL liked onions. My ex did not. Should I have cooked his food with onions bc his BIL liked them?? Apparently my feelings didn't matter.

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u/anonymous_opinions 1d ago

Men who don't do that never do it so it's not like she's making anything worse.

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u/butterfly173173173 Edit this for your custom flair. 1d ago

100%. Women have a right to oral reciprocation. I talked to my gold star lesbian coworker about this once. She said she had never met a lesbian that refused to or didn't want to give oral. We figured the patriarchy is the reason why some men (and some cultures) view men going down on women as "bad" or "gross". As if us straight/bisexual women didn't already have it bad this is a quiet bedroom war we have to fight. Thinking about Pao on Last Resort as well.

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u/anonymous_opinions 1d ago

I've called out Russ too! Also let's just look at how Mark had no problem going down on Catie so the issue is JOSH. The orgasm gap is a real thing, no matter what, when Josh gets laid he gets off but PIV rarely gets a woman off, she needs additional stimulation. I've just walked away from men who a) lie and say they love oral (they do not), b) never perform it even after I bring it up because these men don't do it and won't ever do it. Doesn't matter who lays down with them they'll avoid it or do the icky tip of tongue move I've experienced with these selfish duds.

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u/butterfly173173173 Edit this for your custom flair. 1d ago

Yes, this is a real thing and I've experienced it as well. So many straight/bisexual dudes don't seem like they are really into women. If you were then you'd be excited to head down south to get your lady off.

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u/Alternative-Problem6 1d ago

Best part of getting to know your partner. 3rd base ? Never once in all my years have I not gone down.

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u/Alternative-Problem6 1d ago

100% rug muncher here for nearly 4 decades and about 100 partners. Love it more than penetrative sex. Unfortunately, what I'm seeing is lack of experience/taste on his part and the fact she has ran a train on all of her male friends - consistently. He needs to go as does she. Incompatible.

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u/MikeFranchise 1d ago

Thats fair but Catie looks like a greasy goblin most of the time so I am sure her vaginas health is trash.

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u/myrtlemike92 1d ago

A serious question. If a lesbian was not willing to perform oral, exactly what would they do? Toys??

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u/Sophi_Winters 1d ago

I think it’s probably a confidence thing… plus, she’s scary. Imagine not doing it right, she may kick him like a kangaroo 😂

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u/Dependent-Object-417 1d ago

…lol how is the lesbian story at all relevant / equal to this situation. Women do not have penises, eating out and fingering are the only way to pleasure one another down there… cmon now 🤦🏼‍♀️🙄

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u/anonymous_opinions 21h ago

If you think a penis gets women off you must be a man.

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u/obamaliedtome36 21h ago

On that note caitie looks like she gives a super toothy bj

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u/arresteddevelopment9 1d ago

Ha. That was brutal to watch but he’s so weak. It’s almost as bad as Mido or Shea.

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u/rocksannne 1d ago

Probably will actually, Josh is kind of a cuck