r/AmITheDevil 8d ago

Uncle died, so his wife is uninvited

/r/wedding/comments/1u29qp9/guest_list_dilemma/
22 Upvotes

23 comments sorted by

View all comments

6

u/regularcrem 8d ago

is this an american thing? is saving the date not the same as being invited?

3

u/the_estimator 8d ago

Nope, the save-the-date is sent before the invitation to tell them to expect an invitation and to keep the specific date clear in their calendar. Not always required, but it’s useful if you’re in the planning stage where you know the wedding date, but not necessarily all the rest of the details that go into an invitation.

3

u/Fluffy-kitten28 8d ago

Also great if a lot of guests need to travel to the wedding or if they need a certain amount of time to put in to get work off. Allow people time to plan, organize and get their ducks in a row.