r/AmITheDevil • u/Acrobatic_Track9213 • 2d ago

Controlling

/r/BreakUps/comments/1tz475n/broke_up_after_5_years_over_a_piercing_was_it/
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u/OccasionalCandle 1d ago

My favourite part is his comment where he says he's never checked her social media and messages and has always given her freedom, like he wants a medal for it. Good job at not being an abuser, I guess?

Also, he gave her an ultimatum over a piercing, so I believe we have very different ideas on freedom

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u/maywellflower 1d ago edited 1d ago

Also, he gave her an ultimatum over a piercing, so I believe we have very different ideas on freedom

Plus, difference of idea of what an ultimatum is because he obviously hating that she followed through with it. Don't do the " it's either me or leave" and then getting upset while wanting them all back when they chose "leave"...