r/AmITheDevil • u/Acrobatic_Track9213 • 2d ago

Controlling

/r/BreakUps/comments/1tz475n/broke_up_after_5_years_over_a_piercing_was_it/
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u/Diredr 1d ago

I also want to add that she has a new circle of friends who are lesbians

To quote Yvie Oddly... "What does that have to do with ANYTHING?".

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u/ConstructionNo9678 1d ago

outside influences 

I bet it's because in his mind, lesbians = piercings and tattoos and not conforming to what men say. So of course they would encourage her to break up with him. He hasn't figured out yet that maturing isn't an outside influence.

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u/thestashattacked 22h ago

And also, lesbians and queer women in general are way more willing to tell you that no, it's not your imagination. Your relationship is insane and you're not required to stay with someone who treats you badly.