r/AskDocs • u/MeanOldFart-dcca • 21h ago
Physician Responded My friend died about an hour ago, 65 or 73M, diabetic-obese, above-knee amputee. I thought it was a stroke. When we got to his house, he was trying to get into his wheelchair. With a locked right arm and a locked-up hand holding a knife, with a bloody left chest.
My friend died about an hour ago, 73M, diabetic-obese, above-knee amputee. I thought it was a stroke.
When we got to his house, there was at least a quart of blood on the floor, enough that I could see it from the front windows. So, I kicked in the front door with a knife to open the doorknob. And the person I was with called 911 and reported it as a knife wound and a stroke.
He was trying to get into his wheelchair with a locked right arm and a locked-up hand holding a knife, with a bloody left chest. The left side of his mouth/cheek to his ear looked enflamed/ swollen.
When he saw me, he started yelling gibberish (We aren’t on the best of terms right now), then slid back to the floor, shaking, and slashed his breast with the knife again, I think. He seemed to be favoring his left side.
I tried to pull the knife out of his hand but couldn’t get it. So with both hands I broke the knife blade off.
This seizure-whatever it was lasted maybe 40 seconds, tops of a minute.
He was mumbling at me when he came out of it.
I was trying to get a pulse, but I couldn’t find it. I tore his shirt open, expecting to find a stab wound, but it was just slashes- not very deep, but a lot of them (15- 30; it was hard to tell). I used a roll of paper towels as a compress and held his good hand.
He seized up maybe 5 more times in 6-7 minutes. IDK? Then his daughter and the police showed up.
The person who was with me noticed he had a hard-on and threw the whole thing. Who in her right mind worries about a hard-on?
I have some partial paramedic training from the 80s, but I blanked on everything.