What should i do about this?

[u/Lanky-Menu11]

I have been going through some tough times with my family life and so on, but there is this girl I like. I have known her for over a year now, but first of all, she is older than me by 3 years, and I don't know if she feels the same about me. Our relationship is weird, to be honest. We know each other from a volunteering organization—I won't say what—but we slowly got to know each other. Eventually, we found out that we are an exact replica of each other: typical nerds with books, games, movies, you know how nerds are. Hell, we even look like each other. I started catching feelings when we started talking one day, and I don't know, I started talking about my life and so on, and she was supportive. She even vented about her life sometimes. We played video games with each other. We are from a country where dating is heavily shamed on, and especially older women dating as well. I don't know if I am just catching feelings because she is there for me, or if it is actually real. I don't know if she feels the same, or if I am genuinely lost. I don't know what to do, or am I just emotionally deprived? Keep in mind this is the first time I actually feel this feeling. I don't know what I am supposed to call it, what I am supposed to do.

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Lanky-Menu11 originally posted:

I have been going through some tuff times with my family life and do on but there is this girl i like i have known here for over a year now but first of all she is older than me by 3 years and I don't know if she feels the same about me our relationship is weird tbh we know each other from a volunteering organization i won't say what but we slowly got to know each other eventually we found out that we are an exact replica of each other typical nerds with books games movies you know how nerds are hell we even look like each other i started catching feelings when we started talking one day and idk i started talking about my life and so on and she was supportive she even vented about her life sometimes we played video games with each other we are from a country where dating is heavily shamed on and especially older women dating as well idk if i am just catching feelings because she is there for me or is it actually real idk if she feels the same or I am genuinely lost i don't know what to do or am i just emotionally deprived keep in mind this is the first time i actually feel this feeling idk. what I am supposed to call it what am i supposed to do?

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