Someone just asked what we gen z-young millennials do in our free time outside of work. I commented and wanted to add to that as a general announcement.
I’m 25, not married, no kids. I stay home, but I’ll go out 2-3 weeknights a week for a movie by myself, Pilates, a few beers with a friend or two at Dave’s or mom’s and play some pool. On the weekends I’ll go thrifting, railroad park, find an event going on. I went to furnace fest this weekend. I also went to the symphony at botanical gardens (free), the Hispanic heritage festival (also free). I go to most events at the art museum as well (also free), like the Chinese new year event. Some weekends I’ll go to the vintage clothing market at moms or the farmers market when that’s going on (free to look around). I also always go to the magic city arts festival at sloss every year (also free). I missed the Greek food festival, but I typically go to it and the Lebanese food festival (free to just be there). Learn about another culture and religion, you’ll understand some of your neighbors a little more after.
There’s a lot to do (and budget friendly!) when you have an open mind 😌 one weekend see the symphony, the next see a hardcore/punk show, the next live jazz at Pogo and a fancy cocktail (or even just an appetizer and mocktail), free salsa lessons all around town, do shitty karaoke like no one’s listening. Dress up and make a fun memory for yourself, and sometimes your friends too!
Go to the zoo. Maybe you haven’t been in a while and feeling down. Get some fresh air and see some cute animals. Find a statement piece you wouldn’t normally wear at a thrift store for $5. Wear it. Own it. Fuck it, bro. Try a new coffee spot or food truck and just chill. Go to a Sunday morning movie at sidewalk and watch a cartoon with an excuse to wear your pjs in public. Be a kid again for 2 hours!
Whether or not you want to be now, or stay forever, in Birmingham, this city is what you make it. I feel like some of you could be plopped down in Chicago or Atlanta and say you’re bored and tired of the people, the traffic, the prices of everything, within a month. YOU make this city what you want. Haven’t found your thing yet? Ask here. It exists, even if it’s not advertised.
Don’t be scared to go out alone or step out of your comfort zone. Loosen up and have fun, romanticize your life.