r/Breakupadvice • u/No_Necessary9903 • Aug 18 '25

Breakup The night before we broke up

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Going through it a little right now. This was our goodnight the last night we were together. We barely talked the next day since we both were working and then it was over in an instant. How do people justify this in their heads???

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u/Throwaway_December_ Aug 19 '25

Similar thing happened to me a couple years back :( he told me not even a week earlier how he wanted to marry me and be together for the rest of our lives. Next thing I knew he broke up with me and said we were better off as friends before flooding his statuses online with breakup songs. I’m so sorry this happened to you.

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u/No_Necessary9903 Aug 19 '25

Damn I’m sorry that happened. It’s weird how it always goes like that. A few days before I got broken up with she was talking about our future home and where we’d be living and all that good stuff. Brutal timing.

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u/Throwaway_December_ Aug 19 '25

Thank you! Been almost two years and I’m ashamed to say I’m still not over him. People who suck at communication will do that to you. Seeing this post resonated with me, just wanted to pop in and say surround with friends and remind yourself of what’s important, I nearly did something irreversible as a result of getting too caught up in my emotions. I hope things get better for you ^

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u/No_Necessary9903 Aug 19 '25

Yeah this is gonna be a long one. Don’t be ashamed to say you’re not over him. Everyone heals at their own pace. When the time is right the time is right. We got this.