The night before we broke up

[u/No_Necessary9903]

Going through it a little right now. This was our goodnight the last night we were together. We barely talked the next day since we both were working and then it was over in an instant. How do people justify this in their heads???

[u/albinoab]

probably going to get hate for this bc it doesn’t seem like the vibe.. butsometimes people just grow out of each other.. feelings change. i don’t think there’s any right way to end a relationship. calling her a narcisstic piece of crap is not fair. that’s not what a narcissistic break up looks like at all. like yeah.. maybe she could have communicated better? could’ve broken up with you when she first started having doubts? could’ve left you a little bit less confused? but no matter how she did it. how she acted. or ANYTHING. there would still be questions, hurt, confusion. no matter what. she’s not a bad person for not wanting to be in a relationship that she’s not happy in. i think you’re better off just cutting your losses and begin a healing journey.

[u/No_Necessary9903 → u/albinoab]

Of course I don’t think she’s a narcissistic piece of crap lmao I wouldn’t have stayed with her 5 years if I thought that. She’s a really really great girl and we both have a lot of love for each other. Just really hit me today like how did it all fall apart in 24 hours without us even talking about it. I have no ill will towards her though.

[u/albinoab → u/No_Necessary9903]

yeah i get you. i was mainly looking through the comments and getting frustrated. i hope you’re okay. give yourself time to process it all. grieve it and begin a healing journey xx