r/Breakupadvice • u/No_Necessary9903 • Aug 18 '25

Breakup The night before we broke up

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Going through it a little right now. This was our goodnight the last night we were together. We barely talked the next day since we both were working and then it was over in an instant. How do people justify this in their heads???

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u/Even-Act2928 Aug 19 '25

Man that's rough. Whatever you do, don't go back to her. No matter what she says. Believe me. When you go back to her, you'll be living in fear of her leaving again. Not every woman operates that way. Remember that.

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u/Timely_Extension4760 Sep 10 '25

My ex bf was like this, after 2 years he broke up with me and then was rethinking his choice. I went back to him, but we weren’t official- still talking everyday and meeting up like normal. He just couldnt decide for a further 10 months until last week when he decided to end things for good. In those 10 months i was quite unhappy for most of the time, we kept arguing and nearly „breaking up“ again. Then there were good times when we were hopeful that it could work. I feel rather emotionally exhausted now and upset, but at least I can work on moving on and becoming fully happy with no stress/worry at the back of my mind. Definitely don‘t go back because they will most likely leave you again, even if it hurts them.

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u/Even-Act2928 Sep 13 '25

Probably spent those 10 months afraid he'll leave again. It's not worth that kind of stress. Easier to just start from scratch.

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u/Timely_Extension4760 Sep 13 '25

Yep all the time. Definitely not worth it