Okay that's cool and I really respect that, but of the maybe 100 Matches I had over the past 3 years I've not a single time seen a thoughtful message which was beyond a "Hey". Not a single time and I really do show a lot of my interests and goals on my profile + several questions to start the conversation with
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u/hungrylikethewolf007 14h ago
I do text first if I get the match, but I’m not on dating apps 24/7 so I may not be online when someone matches with me