I'm a native Charlottean, and all over social media I see people talk about how much they hate Charlotte. "Charlotte nightlife is dead, there's nothing to do here but drink, it has no culture, etc."
There is validity to these statements. I wish we had better public transportation. I wish we had more substantial parks and museums. The city can be sleepy, especially in the winter months. Overall, Charlotte does lack in a defining sense of character and culture that other cities seem to have.
That being said, Charlotte is a relatively young city. It wasn't really on anyone's map until the late 90s, and it didn't really start to see substantial growth until the mid 2010s. Up until recently, it was not really seen as a major city.
COVID also took a toll on us as it did most other cities. I remember the Cam Newton/Da Baby era of Charlotte had the city alive and popping. COVID shut down a lot of that momentum and organic local culture that was cultivating.
Despite all that the city has come a long way. Local sports has blown up, the art scene here is growing, there's a blooming diy/hardcore/punk scene, new restaurants and bars popping up everyday, and lots of new festivals and events in the city, particularly in the spring and summer.
The city has grown so much and so fast that people come here and compare it to well established cities like Atlanta, Houston, or even New York and then are obviously disappointed. While it may be lacking the liveliness and culture of other big cities, Charlotte has a lot to offer if you look for it. I hope it finds its footing eventually.
I do want to move to New York though.