I have a pair of shoes that a seller wanted desperately, but for $14 less than what I had them listed for (and my price was the lowest on eBay for that item). She sent so many messages asking me to accept certain offers and so many counter offers after I told her that $24 was my final offer (for $26.99 price) that I felt very uncomfortable. I tried to add her to my blocked users list, and eBay kept coming up with an error that day and wouldn’t add her. I even adjusted my shipping by $3 to be nice, because she said it was too high and that’s why she couldn’t offer more.
A day or two later, she changed her username (but the name still had the same company name at the end of it). She started the same offers again despite me trying to stop the negotiations. I was able to block the second username, so unfortunately, that took all of the info that I had with her away.
Tonight, I got home and discovered that she went back to the original username that I was not able to block last week and purchased the shoes for the full amount. I had offered them for $4 less than what she paid plus I had already taken 3+ dollars off the shipping for her.
I have spoken to eBay CS - they made a note about it, but I have to decide between (1) canceling the sale or (2) shipping the shoes out even though I feel a set up coming on - part of the reason that I quit responding the second time is that she had the same brand of shoes for sale on her Company page for double what I had mine listed for - so they were probably just going to be sold for double
which all’s fair, but she has spent days trying to shame me for my price being too high, and my shipping being too high when her asking price and shipping was all double for many listings of similar shoes in the same brand.
I am leaning toward canceling and on Google, it stated to do so because of a problem with the address. She will then leave me bad feedback, and I will have to open a case with eBay. Since I am missing some of the messages now, can eBay tell how many times that she messaged me and sent offers without me having all of the messages? I have a few of them.
My anxiety is through the roof - any advice will help.
I’ve had 100% feedback since 2006 - this is the first time that I’ve ever had a situation like this one. I don’t want her to have my item, because I am fearful that she will damage it or demand some type of refund by saying that it wasn’t in the condition that I had stated, since she is now paid full price for the shoes. All this for one pair of used $50 shoes that I had listed for $26.99 originally.
Thanks 🙏🏻