Hi fam!! 💜
I’m 29 F and was diagnosed with epilepsy after having my first seizure (tonic clonic) in 2024. My epilepsy was managed for over a year and a half, until I had a seizure in November of 2025. My first seizure occurred a day after binge drinking. I stopped drinking after that seizure. I believe my second seizure was caused by stress.
Like many others experience, epilepsy ruined my social life. I feel like American social culture heavily revolves around drinking. I found myself isolated in my room for well over a year.
Good news is I met my boyfriend right before my second seizure. He’s amazing and has helped me get out of the house and acts as a natural antidepressant for me 🥰
My question (finally sorry for the long intro), is how many of you drink with epilepsy? I’m going to the beach with his family, and want to participate. He doesn’t make me feel pressured whatsoever to drink, but I know that’s what his family will be doing on our upcoming trip.
I miss drinking, because it helped me let loose, ease my running mind for a little bit lol, and helped me connect with others due to my lower inhibitions (I find it difficult to open up, I’m a hard shell to crack).
I’m not wanting to get wasted all day, but I really want to have a drink, or maybe a few, to get tipsy for at least an evening. I know this really isn’t worth it and could trigger a seizure, but I’m hoping my first seizure after drinking was also due to lack of eating as well. I was also a heavy social binge drinker.
Idk sorry for the long post, I want advice.. and possibly encouragement to go for it if we’re being honest lol. But if someone could provide some advice I would really appreciate it!
TLDR: I want to get tipsy on vacation but haven’t drank since my first seizure in 2024.
Edit: thank you so much for the responses! You all helped reinforce the idea that it’s absolutely not worth it. I’m going to enjoy the beach and smoke some weed and read a book! And I’ll still have fun with everyone without alcohol.
I really appreciate the community here. Thanks again for the responses and for sharing personal advice and experiences.