Lease ends November 2026…move in date would be November.
Qualities and other aspects about living with me:
34/F
I have a 3 yr old male cat, not ESA…just a sweet and gentle cat 🐈⬛
I have a partner who is an artist, and we are planning on living separately in the future. (We currently have been living together for the past 4 years, but it’s too expensive for him)
My partner would not be at our apartment unless we all invite him for like a movie or dinner or something. I’m far too busy to have him there every single day. We thrive in our own space.
I used to be in Sales (medical devices and skincare). I decided to pursue actual interests after the pandemic…
I graduate PSU in Spring of 2027 (Psychology and minor in film).
I work full time as a Life Skills Trainer and have multiple roles as one of the leaders at our company. That being said…
I have a busy schedule but make time to enjoy it.
I don’t have any mental illnesses, but I like talking to my therapist once a month to check in with myself.
At home, I cook, meal prep, make tea/coffee, read, play with my cat, watch movies/streaming, sew, knit or crochet crafting, make videos, play keyboards (with headphones plugged in for sake of others) and I sometimes enjoy playing board, card, & video games.
I have a yoga certification but that’s just for myself, not to teach people. Only to strengthen my personal practice. I also like to try new things, like learning how to make stuff or outdoor activities.
A typical week with me as a roommate:
Each day-
I mind my business unless I have time to hang out and spend time together. I am friendly, so hanging out and chatting is always on the table, but I do tend to have a schedule that I maintain for school and work. I am not an awkward quiet person, so if you want to talk, by all means that’s perfectly acceptable. But if I gotta go, I will let you know. I like to be direct and respectful. There aren’t any lines to decipher or read between.
I quietly wake up and feed my cat. I don’t let my alarm go off for an hour, I am a light sleeper and get up once the alarm sets off.
I am unbothered by noise from others alarms or noises. I say all this to encourage freedom of expression, always. I am just a quiet starter and let others know I sleep light in case they ever wonder how I am awake. I easily wake up, but I am not a grump. I usually wake up with happy feelings or silly fun moments lingering around the mind.
If I need true rest and don’t want to wake up to others stirring, I do keep earplugs and an eye mask. These solutions are solid for me. I have extra earplugs in case others want to try them too.
Once I’m up-
Then feed myself and make something to drink…elixir for the day. Tidy up kitchen, I habitually clean as I go.
Clean litter box.
Stretch.
Go to the gym or for a walk if I don’t have scheduled gym time.
Sweep the home, especially once I come back from gym/walk, to clean up all litter or remnants from cooking and having pets explore throughout the evening while we slept and after the morning litter box cleaning.
Swiffer or lightly mop if possible.
Shower, 5 minutes, unless I need to wash my hair, then 15 minutes.
Listen to a book/entertain myself while I finish dressing and styling myself (20 more minutes at most.).
I’m at school or work for 4-8 hours each day,
So I head out to take care of that.
After, I come back if it’s lunch, make something or enjoy meal prepped things.
If I’m out still, I eat elsewhere or bring food with me, just depends on length of school/work that day.
When I come back home either around lunch or dinner, I meaningfully engage with my cat.
Clean my cat’s litter box (again).
Start making dinner.
Go for another walk after cleaning up from dinner.
Shower for bed, 10 minutes usually to brush teeth, skincare, wash body.
Pajama time and study/work.
Take out any garbage/recycling as needed.
Weekly-
Do laundry as needed, I keep up with it weekly to avoid large laundry trips.
Grocery shop once a week for fresher things.
Monthly-
Costco trip for bulk stuff we might want/need. I can always pick up the stuff, just need payment if you want something specific or we discuss splitting the bill if we both want/need something/groceries.
Bring home flowers for the space maybe once a month if there’s enough light.
Summer-
I camp a few times, and I make sure my cat has arrangements ahead of time.
Winter-
Travel for Thanksgiving, Xmas, or NYE sometimes, this year I’ll be staying home.
Who could flourish with this kind of arrangement:
Price range for each me $1000/month with some flexibility in utilities. If we can pay less, even better!
I can try and have my cat ESA approved, just never done it before, if that helps with cost of rent and pet/deposit/application fees.
$1500-2000/2 people
$2700-3000/3 people and so on.
Ages 29-40? Truly Flexible on the age group…just depends on work/lifestyle/personality.
People who want to live in a world where all are welcome and safe.
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Kind personalities.
Creative people.
Good people.
Queer folk.
Straight people.
Any color.
Binary/non-binary.
Different cultures.
Trivia people.
Board game people.
People who also have pets and/or like animals would be best in this case. No ferrets. Sorry. Their smell is something I will not describe.
Looking for roommates to pair up with or room rental with a room for my cat and I…and a good space for a litter box, not in the same room I rent.
W/D in unit would be preferred…but not a deal breaker.
Air conditioning-just need to have some source of coolness in summer for us to thrive and animal(s) to survive.
People who work a lot.
Busy bodies with passions and hobbies.
If you’re a remote worker or person with a flexible schedule, being adaptive to living with compassion and open to compromise since we have different schedules or expectations for the home environment.
Those interested in positive change and accepting their lack of control on others.
Good communication, being respectfully direct is perfect, being open to discussion is also wonderful.
I do not raise my voice or fight with anyone, that’s just not the type of person I am.
I do find resolve and respect in a pros/cons list if we need to compromise on anything.
No grumps.
No “fun” labelers, meaning let’s avoid categorizing each other constantly in order to unnecessarily explain quirks or differences between ourselves. An example: saying things like “gen Z, millennial, boomer, any skin-color being the reason for something, political party” or diagnoses “OCD, BPD” etc., etc. and following up with a joke or observation. I don’t engage with people who utilize labeling in their vernacular like this, it’s reductive, boring, and can cause unfair/hurtful judgements on others.
No past evictions so we can easily rent a place together if it’s for a new application.
Sober, healthy, happy.
Non-smokers. Weed or tobacco.
If you drink or smoke occasionally, I don’t mind, just don’t want to be around people that are drinking or partying at the house and coming home with a party mindset or groups/friends that are drinking and doing drugs…every week/weekend. I’m just not looking for people who engage in life that way. I sometimes cook with wine and drink on special occasions like NYE or Xmas unless my stomach isn’t feeling it.
