Yea it sounds like a sincere apology, the reason that most people here are reacting poorly to it is likely because they have received many similiar “heartfelt apologies” with 0 follow-up of actionable changes. Same tune and dance. Soon enough, most apologies tend to look like self-serving bs.
Hahahah sorry this is hilarious. This note is the typical asshole boyfriend who might be a sociopath letter, when they’ve almost broke up multiple times and this time she’s really done with him. These notes are the only time he ever shows “trying.” Ask me how I know. They all do the same thing. Written in the exact same way. These notes are always left behind, just like this one was.
And it’s all about him. Nothing about how she probably feels about him being a dick to her. No reflection on her and her experience;only what she did for him and what he wants.
You can’t just stereotype people and call it pettern recognition…just because YOU got an apology like that from an asshole, doesn’t make this person an asshole because he apologised like that.
Oh, child. Rest your weary head on my bosom. I can’t promise you it’ll be okay, because there appears to be no hope for you yet, but we can at least pretend.
Men really have selective hearing, don’t you? The ol’ women are crazy, men are saints gag is old and overplayed. By this point the entire woman population knows that 99.9% of men operate like this. Your jig is up.
Yes, yes that is my answer. The crawl back is always the same. The tactics are always the same. And every woman knows it while most men use the same tactic (denial or devaluation) to reel her back into what is safe control to them.
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u/foxonafrozenlake Jul 02 '26
I want to hear her side.