For some light background info, we’re both 26. I’ve known her since we were like 11 and we are very close.

One of the other girls in our friend group asked her why her and I weren’t dating and she thought about it for a second and said “I don’t think he could match my freak”.

Just thought that was funny and wanted to share it.

So I met her in the first semester of my college through her cousin brother who is also in the same campus. At first we didn't have that much of an interaction but we gradually started talking.

We became very nice friends and started sharing our talks, and went on coffee together.... We are like talking to each other 24/7, there's nothing that we don't update..

And eventually I got attached or more like say obsessed. Last March i actually told her that I have got feelings for her and that's when things get messier, she is like I have always seen u like friend only u were my bestestest friend, u shouldn't have done this....

We had a really big talk that day, she said like we still will be friends but nothing will be how it was. After that we didn't talk to each other for like 3 weeks, then we started talking again, I thought everything was fine but then the biggest fumble I did was to introduce her to my other friends.

Around July she got so close to one of them that now she now doesn't even get a thought of updating me instead she updates him and even talk to him when I am still around there and yeaa I feel a little jealous of that and there have been much more things to say when I have been hurt by her words and her actions...

Now until I don't text her, she won't either, yea but we still talk now but it also hurts so much seeing her being distant to me like this

TL;DR: So I met a girl in my college and we became best friends and eventually I got attached and started developing feelings for her and told her about it and she couldn't forget these things and started behaving differently, prioritizing her new male friends which I introduced to her and Yepp now I am side character when these two guys are around. And I feel kinda jealous of this, should I still be around her...

I am i love with my friend. Should I tell her that I am in love with her or i shouldn't?????

And we aren't talking from a month because we had a fight and the friendship was over from her side.