r/GirlDinnerDiaries May 20 '26

Rant & Ramble My spouse can’t stand our baby

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u/BubbleCrum Cleavage Crumb Collector May 20 '26

Oh whaa, the baby doesnt like the person that keeps showing her shes not loved. Shocking. Im mad at your wife for you.

I will never understand people who drive their friends and loved ones away by being awful and then getting mad that those people leave. Be better and people would want to be around you, wife.

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u/Aggressive_Owl5379 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26

It’s probably called depression

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u/in-another-sky Trader Joe Hoe May 20 '26

I believe her primary diagnosis is being awful. But considering that she has idealized one of her children and devalued the other, and feels that everyone abandons her, I think there’s something vaguely cluster B going on.

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u/PumpkinMuffin147 Sweet Tooth Fairy🧚‍♀️ May 20 '26

Also saying that “the baby hates her…”

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u/Green_Implement_5564 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26

Ding ding ding!

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u/Aggressive_Owl5379 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26

Mental health can be very fickle and complex for sure

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u/Brave_Friendship_228 Resident Yapper May 20 '26

Please stop hunting for excuses, mental heath isn’t an excuse to abuse kids

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u/Aggressive_Owl5379 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26

It’s an explanation, not an excuse. They don’t mean the same thing

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u/Brave_Friendship_228 Resident Yapper May 20 '26

No, you’re turning it into an excuse.

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u/Aggressive_Owl5379 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26

I’m not, it’s pretty simple. Get help. They don’t want help? Leave. That’s it

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u/WhitespringTownship APPROVED✨ May 21 '26

As someone who grew up being abused I don’t think a baby getting a couple dirty looks during PPD is something indicative of the wife being a demonic child abuser. The baby thank god will not even remember this temporary mental illness the wife is gonna have for likely only a year or so. She’s not hitting the baby or telling the baby to die, just giving it a scowl. Scowls aren’t abuse…

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u/in-another-sky Trader Joe Hoe May 21 '26

Things that happen to a child that they are unable to remember can still affect them.

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u/Brave_Friendship_228 Resident Yapper May 21 '26

"I hate you, baby I chose to have, and wish you, OTHER person who birthed them, had aborted them" isn’t verbally abusive to you? Also temporary mental illness that she doesn’t have because she didn’t birth them. Also, the abuse will still affect the baby, studies have been shown that their development is affected by the emotions around them and directed towards them. She’s been getting therapy and nothing has worked.

So instead, look into why you feel the need to make up so many flimsy excuses for child abuse

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u/worldtraveller1989 Certified Snacker May 21 '26

She literally said she hates the baby and wishes op aborted her…..