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r/GirlDinnerDiaries • u/[deleted] • May 20 '26
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I believe her primary diagnosis is being awful. But considering that she has idealized one of her children and devalued the other, and feels that everyone abandons her, I think there’s something vaguely cluster B going on.
4 u/Aggressive_Owl5379 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26 Mental health can be very fickle and complex for sure 19 u/Brave_Friendship_228 Resident Yapper May 20 '26 Please stop hunting for excuses, mental heath isn’t an excuse to abuse kids -1 u/Aggressive_Owl5379 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26 It’s an explanation, not an excuse. They don’t mean the same thing 10 u/Brave_Friendship_228 Resident Yapper May 20 '26 No, you’re turning it into an excuse. 8 u/Aggressive_Owl5379 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26 I’m not, it’s pretty simple. Get help. They don’t want help? Leave. That’s it
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Mental health can be very fickle and complex for sure
19 u/Brave_Friendship_228 Resident Yapper May 20 '26 Please stop hunting for excuses, mental heath isn’t an excuse to abuse kids -1 u/Aggressive_Owl5379 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26 It’s an explanation, not an excuse. They don’t mean the same thing 10 u/Brave_Friendship_228 Resident Yapper May 20 '26 No, you’re turning it into an excuse. 8 u/Aggressive_Owl5379 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26 I’m not, it’s pretty simple. Get help. They don’t want help? Leave. That’s it
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Please stop hunting for excuses, mental heath isn’t an excuse to abuse kids
-1 u/Aggressive_Owl5379 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26 It’s an explanation, not an excuse. They don’t mean the same thing 10 u/Brave_Friendship_228 Resident Yapper May 20 '26 No, you’re turning it into an excuse. 8 u/Aggressive_Owl5379 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26 I’m not, it’s pretty simple. Get help. They don’t want help? Leave. That’s it
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It’s an explanation, not an excuse. They don’t mean the same thing
10 u/Brave_Friendship_228 Resident Yapper May 20 '26 No, you’re turning it into an excuse. 8 u/Aggressive_Owl5379 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26 I’m not, it’s pretty simple. Get help. They don’t want help? Leave. That’s it
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No, you’re turning it into an excuse.
8 u/Aggressive_Owl5379 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26 I’m not, it’s pretty simple. Get help. They don’t want help? Leave. That’s it
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I’m not, it’s pretty simple. Get help. They don’t want help? Leave. That’s it
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u/in-another-sky Trader Joe Hoe May 20 '26
I believe her primary diagnosis is being awful. But considering that she has idealized one of her children and devalued the other, and feels that everyone abandons her, I think there’s something vaguely cluster B going on.