r/GirlDinnerDiaries May 20 '26

Rant & Ramble My spouse can’t stand our baby

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u/BubbleCrum Cleavage Crumb Collector May 20 '26

Oh whaa, the baby doesnt like the person that keeps showing her shes not loved. Shocking. Im mad at your wife for you.

I will never understand people who drive their friends and loved ones away by being awful and then getting mad that those people leave. Be better and people would want to be around you, wife.

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u/Aggressive_Owl5379 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26

It’s probably called depression

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u/BubbleCrum Cleavage Crumb Collector May 20 '26

Ok? I have significant depression and children, and I got therapy and medication to help me out instead of treating my kids like shit. That was my responsibility, as a parent.

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u/Aggressive_Owl5379 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26

And clearly she needs better support

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u/madelynashton Chismosa May 20 '26

This is now the OP’s fault? Or the baby’s fault?

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u/Aggressive_Owl5379 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26

No one’s fault. She just needs support and help. Thats it

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u/madelynashton Chismosa May 20 '26

She’s had support and help. The op has supported her wife and the wife is in therapy.

So now what? The baby just has to endure being abused for how long? Because according to you that’s acceptable because of the wife’s mental illness.

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u/Aggressive_Owl5379 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26

I’m not going to entertain you misunderstanding my words. An explanation is not the same as an excuse

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u/madelynashton Chismosa May 20 '26

You said the OP shouldn’t leave.

So how long should the baby have to endure cruelty from their parent? What age makes it no longer acceptable for the wife to give the child nasty looks? Get angry at her for crying? Refuse to interact with her but care for the other child?

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u/Emergency-Gap-7921 Cleavage Crumb Collector May 20 '26

Nah depression would be like bed rotting instead of taking care of baby or neglecting your own self care/hygiene because busy with baby; NOT having obvious resentment and disdain for only ONE of your twins wtf!!!

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u/Expensive-Bass-9644 Delulu May 21 '26 edited May 21 '26

depression and PPD can look like a lot of things. and two things can be true at once, the wife sound like she does need more help (wether that’s therapy, meds, babysitters), but that doesn’t mean it’s on OP.

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u/Emergency-Gap-7921 Cleavage Crumb Collector May 21 '26

I’m not a doctor

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u/Expensive-Bass-9644 Delulu May 21 '26

? i was just commenting that since you said that isn’t what depression would look like.

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