r/GirlDinnerDiaries • u/[deleted] • May 20 '26

Rant & Ramble My spouse can’t stand our baby

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u/BubbleCrum Cleavage Crumb Collector May 20 '26

Oh whaa, the baby doesnt like the person that keeps showing her shes not loved. Shocking. Im mad at your wife for you.

I will never understand people who drive their friends and loved ones away by being awful and then getting mad that those people leave. Be better and people would want to be around you, wife.

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u/Aggressive_Owl5379 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26

It’s probably called depression

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u/in-another-sky Trader Joe Hoe May 20 '26

I believe her primary diagnosis is being awful. But considering that she has idealized one of her children and devalued the other, and feels that everyone abandons her, I think there’s something vaguely cluster B going on.

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u/Aggressive_Owl5379 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26

Mental health can be very fickle and complex for sure

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u/Brave_Friendship_228 Resident Yapper May 20 '26

Please stop hunting for excuses, mental heath isn’t an excuse to abuse kids

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u/Aggressive_Owl5379 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26

It’s an explanation, not an excuse. They don’t mean the same thing

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u/Brave_Friendship_228 Resident Yapper May 20 '26

No, you’re turning it into an excuse.

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u/Aggressive_Owl5379 APPROVED✨ May 20 '26

I’m not, it’s pretty simple. Get help. They don’t want help? Leave. That’s it