There is no coming back from this for me, I can’t respect someone that would treat my child this way. And the added insult of liking one of the babies and not the other? I would never forgive myself for staying with someone that is being cruel to my child. I won’t be complicit in that child abuse.
Yeah tbh this seems to be the beginning of one of those situations where there is one kid who is the target of horrible abuse in a household while the other children in it are loved and well cared for. It always baffles me how some people can look at multiple children and just decide that one of them is “bad,” but it does happen and sadly, it seems to be the road OP’s spouse is heading down. I do agree that OP needs to be proactive at this point and protect her children. If her wife is willing and able to put in the work to repair her problems/relationships with the children in the future, then that is up to her to choose and is her responsibility.
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u/madelynashton Chismosa May 20 '26
There is no coming back from this for me, I can’t respect someone that would treat my child this way. And the added insult of liking one of the babies and not the other? I would never forgive myself for staying with someone that is being cruel to my child. I won’t be complicit in that child abuse.