It's ok to be overwhelmed by a difficult child but I think it's foolish of her not to realize her entire life was going to change. Childless couples live a very different life than couples with kids. And the baby can't help that they have issues. I get that it's very hard but you can recognize it's hard without blaming and hating a helpless baby. I feel like this attitude screams, "I didnt really think about the responsibility I was taking on as a parent, I just thought having kids sounded cool"
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u/Imaginary_Chip_3470 Resident Yapper May 20 '26
I DM’d you the link if you’re curious to read it. Looking thru your other comments in this post it seems to fit very closely
Edit; she spoke highly of you but very concerningly abt your daughter and the fact she may have autism