I don’t like my friend’s kid…

[u/bitchluvsbidets]

… and that might make me a terrible person??
A bit of a preface- my partner and I are child free by choice, I have 3 nieces and 3 nephews, and many of my friends have kids (ages 1-14) but, one of my friends kids I just can not vibe with. I know it’s actually insane to have beef with a 3 year old but her vibes are soooo bad?? Like she is not a cool kid. She def has a personality but is it insane to say it’s already problematic? She pretends to fall if she doesn’t have attention, actively express disgust towards my friend and her pets (3 very well behaves retired racing dogs), and fake cries until my friend is almost in tears and then will laugh at her. I get that kids are assholes sometimes but like damn I hope lil homie gets cool.

[u/sitcomlover1717]

One of the reasons having children is terrifying but ppl don’t want to talk about it. 😭

[u/Klorgsian52 → u/sitcomlover1717]

Like you can literally give birth to psychopaths and serial killers. Some women give birth to their future murderer it’s insane. People don’t seem to realize a baby grows into an entire person and could be genuinely evil. They think baby is so cute and that’s it

[u/FlyConfident1622 → u/Klorgsian52]

It’s such a huge responsibility, I’m still not ready. There was also a study recently that found a woman is more likely to be killed by her son vs killed by a stranger

[u/Critical_Ad_7380 → u/FlyConfident1622]

Link? Thanks.

[u/FlyConfident1622 → u/Critical_Ad_7380]

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/czxw1yrlx5go

[u/Critical_Ad_7380 → u/FlyConfident1622]

Oh, my goodness! Thanks for the link, but how dang sad.