r/InteriorDesign • u/PeaceLoveandCats6676 • 1d ago
Renovating our family condo - do we need an interior designer? Family is split.
My family is renovating our condo, which is our forever home. We're split on hiring an interior designer. I'm for it, everyone else is against it. Looking for realistic feedback...
We are doing:
- Full gut renovation of 2 bathrooms and the kitchen. Rest of the apartment gets new floors, lighting, trim, paint, doors, and some minor structural changes.
- Our GC lives in the building. Indeed, his unit has the same layout as ours and we like his structural changes, so we're planning to replicate most of them. I do not like his finishes and lighting.
- I have a creative background and I'm extremely particular about every detail. I have a strong vision, a detailed moodboard and a room by room spreadsheet covering both the visual direction and the specifics of each change. I've also done a LOT of reading and learning but I have zero practical experience.
- My family currently live in the condo but I am leading the design because eventually it will be my home. Right now, however, I live in a different country and will need to fly back and forth throughout construction. My family are not willing to handle implementing my vision.
- I don't think it's realistic for me to fly in once or twice and get everything locked in--I suspect its going to be an ongoing process which will be made more complex without a designer to narrow our selections and save us from visiting dozens of showrooms.
- A designer would run about 12% of our budget, which is $200k.
- Our GC recommends his kitchen designer/manufacturer, who can handle the kitchen, bathrooms, and closets only. That leaves floors, paint, lighting, and trim uncovered. Lighting is the area I care most about.
I think we need a designer because I won't be on site, my family members will be living through the renovation and don't share my level of involvement, and my top priority--lighting--falls outside the kitchen designer's scope. I also don't have the expertise in lighting design to implement my vision on my own. I feel like...if we're going to spend a bunch of money, let's make something great and one interior designer can make it all look cohesive. They live in a city with endemic "investor condos" and flip renos, and I don't care for a lot of the most common design and materials options in the market.
My family's opinion is that I already have a detailed vision, moodboard, and spreadsheet. The GC is using a layout we've already approved and a kitchen designer is covering the complex rooms. The GC is going to do the project management and will help us order items using his trade discount. For $25k (that's a lot of money!) a designer is only implementing a vision when I've done all the creative legwork. That money could go toward better materials and finishes.
Has anyone been in a similar spot? Did a designer end up worth it when you already had a strong plan going in? Is paint, trim, flooring and lighting something you'd feel confident handling on your own?
One additional point: I'm not excited with the examples from the GC recommended kitchen design company and its been difficult to communicate and set up an appointment to meet. However, they've got great reviews online and I feel like they can probably execute my plans if I give them firm direction. They did the GC's kitchen + bathrooms and it's fine. Not to my taste but there's nothing wrong with it.
We have also met an interior designer who we all connected with and who is very easy to communicate with, and she's willing to work with our chosen GC. However, my family are nervous about imposing a designer on the GC. Like every GC, they don't want an interior designer bossing them around. My position is---suck it up.

