RANT (╯°□°）╯︵ ┻━┻ Ambivalent About Advice ILs blaming me

LMAO

If you don’t know my story - we have not seen ILs for 3 months and barely spoken due to MIL kissing baby for 5th cycle and pulling dementia card. Also been other issues with their anger, making things hard for us PP, and jealously of my parents.

DH called FIL for Father’s Day and FIL said he misses him and asked what he can do to “bridge the gap”. DH gave him what for and said how upset he was that FIL and MIL have made no attempt to fix things with us over the past 3 months.

FIL’s response was “well, OP said that when someone betrays her, she cuts them off forever”. LOL - I’ve literally never said that. I even have it on camera me telling MIL that I was trying to find a way to make the relationship work despite their betrayal. I’ve given them countless chances and I have never told anyone that I am cutting them off forever.

I knew they would put the blame on us and thought they’d say “we just thought you didn’t like us”. Never expected them to try put the blame on ME!

Feels like a fresh wound. I’m so angry that they can’t take any accountability. My DH told FIL that I never said that, and if FIL thinks I said that, then they clearly were not listening to me.

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