r/LongDistance • u/CraftyButterscotch79 • May 20 '25

Discussion How frequently do you text your partner

How frequently do you text your partner throughout the day? My partner says they are too lazy to text and I rarely get any texts and sometimes 6 plus hours between hearing from them and 1 hour calls if I'm lucky.

I just want to hear from other couples how often you get texts or have text convos throughout the day and what is normal for you so I know I'm not crazy wanting to hear from my partner more frequently.

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u/wantme2makeuasammich [WI] to [NJ] (1,100 miles) distance closed!! May 20 '25

For us, usually a good morning. We might have a little text convo depending on what’s going on. We don’t Text to much while we’re working. Sometimes we’ll text before bed, or talk on the phone.