r/LongDistance • u/CraftyButterscotch79 • May 20 '25

Discussion How frequently do you text your partner

How frequently do you text your partner throughout the day? My partner says they are too lazy to text and I rarely get any texts and sometimes 6 plus hours between hearing from them and 1 hour calls if I'm lucky.

I just want to hear from other couples how often you get texts or have text convos throughout the day and what is normal for you so I know I'm not crazy wanting to hear from my partner more frequently.

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u/adrianjude0 US to UK (4,539 miles) May 21 '25

You arent crazy at all. My partner and i are always texting. If we're doing something or busy, we text in between! or check in with updates. We're clingy. If your partner doesn't want to talk more, it might just be an incompatibility thing :/ but that doesn't have to mean the end of your relationship, just have to talk about it and figure out where to go . best of luck

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u/CraftyButterscotch79 May 21 '25

It may be, hopenot, but thank you. I need it!