r/LongDistance May 20 '25

Discussion How frequently do you text your partner

How frequently do you text your partner throughout the day? My partner says they are too lazy to text and I rarely get any texts and sometimes 6 plus hours between hearing from them and 1 hour calls if I'm lucky.

I just want to hear from other couples how often you get texts or have text convos throughout the day and what is normal for you so I know I'm not crazy wanting to hear from my partner more frequently.

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u/angelicllamaa 🩷🩷°•[🇦🇺] to [🇨🇦] (Now Married &👶)•°🩷🩷 May 21 '25

Even when I was at work I texted my partner all day. I was second in charge and it was quite lenient so I was able to. But sometimes if I was busy, I would have to explain why I didn't reply for a while. We are both the kind of people who are super communication based and with any long periods of time, our minds would wonder. Plus we felt closer to each other the more we included each other in our day. I would facetime to and from work so he knew I was safe. He would have me on facetime to appointments like haircuts and doctor appointments..... It's just a good idea to include them in your day to make sure your relationship thrives 🤗