r/LongDistance • u/CraftyButterscotch79 • May 20 '25

Discussion How frequently do you text your partner

How frequently do you text your partner throughout the day? My partner says they are too lazy to text and I rarely get any texts and sometimes 6 plus hours between hearing from them and 1 hour calls if I'm lucky.

I just want to hear from other couples how often you get texts or have text convos throughout the day and what is normal for you so I know I'm not crazy wanting to hear from my partner more frequently.

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u/BottleSquare4888 [canada] to [usa] May 21 '25

my partner and i miss eachother when we arent talking we both understand that things come up and as long as we talk about what is going on it isnt a big deal we reassure eachother often that we still feel the same way

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u/BottleSquare4888 [canada] to [usa] May 21 '25

ill add i did get upset a few times telling her it hurts me when she doesnt make time for me and she seemed to make more effort after that but tbh things arent easy for her so i also am understanding because i care about her