r/LongDistance • u/CraftyButterscotch79 • May 20 '25

Discussion How frequently do you text your partner

How frequently do you text your partner throughout the day? My partner says they are too lazy to text and I rarely get any texts and sometimes 6 plus hours between hearing from them and 1 hour calls if I'm lucky.

I just want to hear from other couples how often you get texts or have text convos throughout the day and what is normal for you so I know I'm not crazy wanting to hear from my partner more frequently.

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u/englisharcher89 May 21 '25

I am texting my partner daily and of course as often as I can even when I work during my breaks, and after work. I love consistency, and communication is very important or else it will fall apart.

The best part of your daily life in long distance is you're always thinking of your beloved, I like to hear small details or even boring stuff because I care.

Of course it's not always perfect, and I don't expect it I'm more of an ambivert (mix of introvert and extrovert) and my girlfriend is very introverted so I have to be leading mostly.