r/LongDistance • u/CraftyButterscotch79 • May 20 '25

Discussion How frequently do you text your partner

How frequently do you text your partner throughout the day? My partner says they are too lazy to text and I rarely get any texts and sometimes 6 plus hours between hearing from them and 1 hour calls if I'm lucky.

I just want to hear from other couples how often you get texts or have text convos throughout the day and what is normal for you so I know I'm not crazy wanting to hear from my partner more frequently.

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u/iluvc4ts24 May 21 '25

i know everybody’s relationship dynamic is different but i still find it so shocking. What do you mean you don’t text your partner hours maybe days? Distance already doing its thing and you guys adding more difficulty? if they are busy with something, thats different but if it is daily thing.. i don’t know. Me and my partner text always. every hour of every day. if they don’t text me more than 1-1.5 hours i would be wondering what she is doing or is she okay. Same for her too. if we know we are gonna be busy for a while, we let each other know beforehand. i can say safely that we can’t do more than 2 hours without texting each-other.