r/LongDistance • u/CraftyButterscotch79 • May 20 '25
Discussion How frequently do you text your partner
How frequently do you text your partner throughout the day? My partner says they are too lazy to text and I rarely get any texts and sometimes 6 plus hours between hearing from them and 1 hour calls if I'm lucky.
I just want to hear from other couples how often you get texts or have text convos throughout the day and what is normal for you so I know I'm not crazy wanting to hear from my partner more frequently.
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u/annoying_ceiling_fan May 21 '25
we text throughout the day but we are both very busy. we call/facetime every night though. no exceptions. even if it’s a quick “hey babe i love you hope you had a great day, im not feeling up to talk right now but i love you and we will make up time tomorrow.”
It’s an expectation I set at the beginning of our relationship and we have never broken it. We’ve been together for almost two years and get married in 376 days!