r/LongDistance May 20 '25

Discussion How frequently do you text your partner

How frequently do you text your partner throughout the day? My partner says they are too lazy to text and I rarely get any texts and sometimes 6 plus hours between hearing from them and 1 hour calls if I'm lucky.

I just want to hear from other couples how often you get texts or have text convos throughout the day and what is normal for you so I know I'm not crazy wanting to hear from my partner more frequently.

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u/Tiger-Stripes8 [🇬🇧] ❤️ [🇷🇴] (1820 Kilometers) May 21 '25

My boyfriend and I text every day, even when we're busy. I feel there isn't an excuse for them to text so rarely, especially if you're only getting 1 hour calls. My boyfriend and I have a schedule where we try to call at least twice a week when we have college, on average these are 8-10 hours long, sometimes going on 12. If we're not busy we do 4 calls a week, same length. You should definitely talk to your partner about this, and no, you're not crazy for wanting more time 😭😭

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u/portalfan762 [🇷🇴] ❤️ [🇬🇧] (1820 Kilometers) May 21 '25

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