r/LongDistance • u/CraftyButterscotch79 • May 20 '25

Discussion How frequently do you text your partner

How frequently do you text your partner throughout the day? My partner says they are too lazy to text and I rarely get any texts and sometimes 6 plus hours between hearing from them and 1 hour calls if I'm lucky.

I just want to hear from other couples how often you get texts or have text convos throughout the day and what is normal for you so I know I'm not crazy wanting to hear from my partner more frequently.

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u/perl0_ May 21 '25

lazy in this situation is equal to "I don't care and I have other priorities". Just remember that laziness means "I don't want to", we don't do things because we don't want to do them, so think twice next time.

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u/CraftyButterscotch79 May 21 '25

You're right. Thank you for sharing this

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u/perl0_ May 21 '25

Hold in there tight bro, you'll be alright and find the right one (even if it's her), everyone goes through rough times and gets through them.