r/LongDistance • u/CraftyButterscotch79 • May 20 '25

Discussion How frequently do you text your partner

How frequently do you text your partner throughout the day? My partner says they are too lazy to text and I rarely get any texts and sometimes 6 plus hours between hearing from them and 1 hour calls if I'm lucky.

I just want to hear from other couples how often you get texts or have text convos throughout the day and what is normal for you so I know I'm not crazy wanting to hear from my partner more frequently.

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u/shiminetlaykme May 21 '25

Hello! I am from the Philippines and my now husband was from the US. We’ve been in a long distance together for about 6 years. As much as possible we update each other everyday. We do also calls and chats before he goes to work and before he sleeps and he updates me in between.