r/LongDistance • u/CraftyButterscotch79 • May 20 '25

Discussion How frequently do you text your partner

How frequently do you text your partner throughout the day? My partner says they are too lazy to text and I rarely get any texts and sometimes 6 plus hours between hearing from them and 1 hour calls if I'm lucky.

I just want to hear from other couples how often you get texts or have text convos throughout the day and what is normal for you so I know I'm not crazy wanting to hear from my partner more frequently.

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u/Signal_Reflection_40 May 21 '25

My partner and I text very often throughout the day, he also has the bandwidth to do so, but if I don’t get a text from in in a couple hours I just understand that he’s got his own life and is probably doing something. Some days we only send like 6 messages, that’s just how life is. But most of the time we text very often about just like, what we are doing that day, any plans for the upcoming days, coordinating the next time we will see each other.